Sin/how do you get back what you had, how do you get that empty feeling at the back of your head.?

Question

I feel lathargic and horrible, i feel like i'm touching death. I have sinned( I went off with another guy I didnt even like argh) at a party in which a guy I have feelings for was there. It's not the sort of thing I would do. How can I get my self respect back? Do I tell the guy how I feel? I feel this horrible feeling like my heart has been hardened? have you ever felt this way before? how do you get your innocence back? Do you make love happen? what do you do?? I don't want to regret my inactions.

thank you XX yes it was alcohol plus they were doing I have/have never game which involved telling how much you had done, alot involving sex, felt abit like a prawn because i haven't done much, being a bit personal here i know, and plus i felt a sense of weakness and childish naivety whenever i am in the presence of the guy i have feelings for, it was a way of protecting myself I guess.

Answer 1

You have to forgive yourself. You are human and therefore, inperfect. it is our nature to sin. You are the only one that can give your self respect back.
You need to think about why you did it. Was the guy you really liked ignoring you? Did you think if he saw you with this guy, he would be jeolous? Was alcohol involved? Once you figure out why you behaved the way you did, you can figure out how to stop it from happening again!
I wonder if you were a virgin that slept with this guy. (if not, please dont be offended!) You can never 'get you innocence back'...Ive tried! You can only move forward and act responsibly next time!
AND YOU ABSOLUTELY CAN NOT MAKE LOVE HAPPEN!!! When you fall in love, it wont be forced or arranged! You will know it! And he will love you back!
Just stay true to who you really are! You will be loved for you! (all your mistakes too!) Dont be so hard on yourself! Just learn from it!