2007-03-01 11:13:30 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i am really shy and its getting on my nerves
2007-03-01 11:21:00 · update #1
Don't worry about it this too will pass, trust me, just give it the time and opportunity.
2007-03-01 11:18:03 · answer #1 · answered by S.O.S. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, if you are so shy that you can't interact with other people that isn't good...but being shy isn't a truly bad thing. I think that if you asked this question, you may feel like your shyness interferes with your life and that's hard.
I think that you need to just stand back, look at yourself and the situation/people that you are shy of and assess the problem with honesty.
I have always been pretty shy... you know, afraid to talk, stammering, huge anxiety attacks...I always break out in hives when in a social situation (which is cool in the winter with turtlenecks...but man I hate summer). But I know that it comes from a sense of low self-esteem. Truly, you just have to have more faith in yourself. I know that sounds pretty hard to swallow, but why else would you be afraid of others? If you truly liked your self, why would you have any anxiety over talking to other people.
My advice... start liking the little things about yourself that are cool and the rest will happen... you know, every one else is not always right and I'll bet you'll find that out by reading some of the ridiculous answers you get. You really are unique and important.
It is my sincer wish you find that out, and just become you!
2007-03-01 19:27:29 · answer #2 · answered by aj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, my friend read some books. j/k First if your in school sign up for lots of school activities but if your not just start going ouit places and meet new people if you start their then things will gradually happen. Good luck!
2007-03-01 19:18:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im shy too, but i guess just be open and if anyone invites you somewhere never say no, always go for it, just keep pushing yourslef and eventually youll get used to it. just have fun
2007-03-01 19:19:17 · answer #4 · answered by i luv all yalls 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
huh?
you're outgoing?
2007-03-01 19:17:18 · answer #5 · answered by canadians_are_imbeciles1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋