My close friend is dating this girl and she has a body that's out of this world! I mean, an hour glass figure! And they always drop by my house and i catch myself looking at her booty all the time! I can't help it! I'm not doing it purposely, but i'm a dude and can't seem to stop myself! She has a body like J LO or Beyonce and it's just hard not to look! I would never cross my friend or nothing like that, but my eyes wander when she's around. What can i do to stop myself from doing this? I have a girlfriend and i love her to death and would never cheat on her, but this is so hard because my friend loves to bring her over and we have fun. My girl was there on a couple of occasions and i still found myself sneaking a couple of peeks here and there whenever i could. Luckily my girl didn't see me. This girl has an apple bottom and i can't help but look! Help Me! I need some advice quick!
2007-03-01 10:44:43 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
lol. Umm...try to find hot qualities in your girlfriend and look at them instead...
Man, I don't know. Who cares? You're only looking...I see no harm in that.
2007-03-01 10:48:50 · answer #1 · answered by Wendy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal for men to look at woman. Just dont flirt on her or anything...keep your distance. If she's wearing hoochie clothes i totally understand. Spend more time looking at ur girl friends butt and maybe that'll help. It's normal to stare though dont feel ashamed. Just try and show your freind your not attracted to his girl in any way. If the apple bottom girl hits on you run like hell!
Those type are trouble trust me. Just try and spend more time out with your girl friend bc when you really really really really love her it's impossible to even have thoughts or stare at another woman easily.
If the situation gets to bad try to tell your freind your kinda busy with your girl right now...even if it's a total lie!
2007-03-01 18:52:51 · answer #2 · answered by Sophia L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not tell your friend that you like checking out his girlfriend. The last thing you want is a huge fight. Just remember all the good things about your girlfriend and why you love her. If you can't do that, then just look, but no touching!
2007-03-01 18:51:26 · answer #3 · answered by Erin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have will power when it can get you in trouble,but I always thought looking never hurt anything as long as it isn't a gateway to something more.I flirted with my best friend's girlfriend before,but we were all cool with each other.If they're cool like that,I'd say be open about it...if not,just have will power not to be too obvious when checking out the goods.
2007-03-01 18:50:35 · answer #4 · answered by cultureslum 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Man you're human aren't you? If your girl can't handle you looking then you better think twice about your relationship with her. The dog can ly on the porch, but don't chase the cars.
2007-03-01 18:50:51 · answer #5 · answered by seahorse 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, try to ignore it, you want to respect your friend and girlfriend. Well, whenever you want to hang out with your friend set up a time so only you and him would be alone so you won't look at your friend's girlfriend.
2007-03-01 19:03:32 · answer #6 · answered by lynette 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
*laughs* All I gotta say is you better not get caught....by either one of them. You really need more will power. Try to ignore it. You don't wanna lose your friend and your girlfriend.
2007-03-01 20:06:59 · answer #7 · answered by soaddicted2this 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just as long has you don't have deep feelings for this girl and you focuse on your girlfriend, you should be fine.
2007-03-01 18:52:00 · answer #8 · answered by maysimay2006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man that's a tough question,i would probably do the same thing.
2007-03-01 18:50:27 · answer #9 · answered by ddreaddsjr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you really need to learn to control yourself... i ahd teh same problem with my boyfriends bestfriend he would always jus tstare at me and he even ended up calling me and telling me things... my boyfriend and him had to have a long as talk and know its just weird when we all hang out togetehr
2007-03-01 18:49:35 · answer #10 · answered by lovepixiek 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋