I'm 14 and in J.H..i'm the girl who always gets made fun of..i mean, i have many friends, but we're not popular at all! I dress in a recent looking way, and there is nothing wrong with the way i look..people always insult me cause i;m shy, and really sensitive...also, I hate just being in a big school....how ca ni get over it and try enjoying school rather than worry..was it like this for you too? HELP!!!
2007-03-01 10:38:06 · 15 answers · asked by MEOW 3 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
YES! I was tormented constantly in Junior High for being shy, quiet, and just for being a nobody.... And now, in high school, I still hate it. I have one good friend, and I'm somewhat happy at that.. People are jerks, and sometimes you have to overlook them. I somehow survived it, eventually... I transferred to avoid my troubles I went form going to a large school to the smallest school in my town. And I fit in somehow... They were redneck and I was sorta-kinda Emo-ish... But now, in high school, I absolutely LOATHE it! It's the biggest high school in my state.. It was extremely hard finding who I was until I met my one true friend. She was just like me all through Junior High also, and somehow we started taking and became good friends. I hope and pray that you turn out better than me and find more people like you and just the best!
♥Ashlyn aka- Headfirst For Halos
2007-03-01 10:49:00 · answer #1 · answered by Headfirst For Halos 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yah know...you're only being picked on because you're shy and sensitive and I swear pre-teens and teens can sense this on a person.
If someone picks on you, stand your ground. Sure...you might get upset in front of them, but if you stand your ground then you'll be bothered less..they are looking for the weakest link. Don't be that link.
Also, be confident...walk in the hallways with your head up, try smiling on occasion and no matter what?
Junior High and High School suck. But college? That's where people realize how small they are in respect to the rest of the world, just make it to college.
Good luck!
2007-03-01 10:44:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Join an academic club or a sports team. It will help you meet people with similar interests. The more involved you become in school activities, the better your school experience is. There are many opportunities in larger schools and you will be better prepared for highschool if you develop some connections with extra curricular activities now.
2007-03-01 10:46:03 · answer #3 · answered by Country girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Junior High is hell for everyone except the "popular" people. Just try to ignore the comments and stick with your friends. It gets better in high school as people start to mature.
2007-03-01 10:44:33 · answer #4 · answered by Donna T 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it was like this when I went to my first Junior High School, so I moved to another Junior High School and thing got better.
2007-03-01 10:46:10 · answer #5 · answered by Yūsuke 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The key to school is confidence. If it seems like you're vulnerable and sensitive somene's gonna bully you to make themselves feel better. Just do the best you can, study hard and graduate.
2007-03-01 10:45:51 · answer #6 · answered by KT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Junior high sucks for most people. So does high school, it's just part of the human experience. So be a trooper. :)
2007-03-01 10:45:08 · answer #7 · answered by McLovin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya school isn't the funnest thing but it is good for your future. eventually you realize that there is zero relevance as to whether or not the other people in school think you're "cool" or if they make fun of you. you'll get through it don't worry.
2007-03-01 10:45:24 · answer #8 · answered by shane 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well sorta
since you have many friends you should just try to hang around them as much as possible
i noticed hanging around with my friends were funner than being so called COOL or whatever
but im not uncool either im just like something else
lol
well good luck!
it shouldnt be too hard!
it should get better
2007-03-01 10:44:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I did to but now I am in 9th grade and now I love it.
I am on Honor role now and I didn't even get on Honor role last year in Junior High.
That sound funny you sounded just like me last year but I am not shy anymore.
2007-03-01 10:44:53 · answer #10 · answered by Renji 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋