Me and my husband are getting bored in the bedroom and need something new to spice it up. We can without for at least a month. HELP!!!!!
2007-03-01 10:29:46 · 13 answers · asked by kitty kats mom 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
First of all, don't stress out. That is a sex killer! Secondly, discuss things. Is there anything you would like to do that maybe you are afraid to discuss with him? Chances are, he may want to do it as well. What my friend and I did, for our husbands, we took peaces of paper and wrote things down, like "Lick my (*&^", "Kiss my blank", suck my blank, spank me, slowly rub me all over, anal, etc. Then we put it in a little jar, a hat, whatever. Each night, or whenever you decide, someone drawls, and the other person has to do that thing.
Also, you could go out together, but pretend you AREN'T together. Each of you flirts with someone else, then after a while, your husband walks up to you, acts like he doesn't know you, and then grabs and kisses you and you guys go home and have some wild sex!
There are also games you can buy at Spencers that are really fun and REALLY get you in the mood.
Hope some of these work! Otherwise, just TALK about what you always wanted to do, but was afraid to ask.
2007-03-01 10:36:49 · answer #1 · answered by bina64davis 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get three bandannas or scarves. Ask him to sit naked in the middle of the bed, facing any direction. Tell him to face forward, and approach him from behind with at least two bandannas in hand. Lay one down and fold the other into about a 2" strip. Place it over his eyes and tie it in the back of his head. Tie it a second time in a square knot.
Next, cross his wrists behind him. Drape the second bandanna over the crossed wrists. Bring the front piece down and then behind, cross the fabric behind the wrists and turn 90 degrees, then bring the ends to the front again, tying them off. It should be like tying a ribbon on a present. You want it firm but not tight. Now place a pillow behind him and lay him back on it. His arms and shoulders should be on the pillow, but his wrists will be in a gap (without his weight pressing on them).
You're not done yet. Now you bring his feet up and cross his lower legs beneath him, close to his pecker. Your final bandanna is used here to tie his calves together. You want this good and tight. Your man should be very exposed and very erect. You should straddle him in a 69 position, but don't give him constant access to you with his mouth.
Use your mouth and hands on his pecker and balls. You can even explore his rear end with a finger or toy. Have a towel handy and use lots of lube. If you have long nails you should wear a latex glove. Have fun playing with him (you won't hear a peep of complaint from him no matter what you try unless it's from tugging his skin too tight) but don't let him come. If he is getting close, back off and let his mouth have some fun. Don't be surprised if he starts begging.
Good luck!
2007-03-01 18:47:01 · answer #2 · answered by Martin Pedersen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not a place I want to describe my sex life... But I'll give you the advice I can.
My wife and I were going through the same thing. We finally talked about it. It has gotten much better. I think you two need to sit down and have the discussion. What do you like. It's funny how hard it is for even a husband and wife to talk about sexual needs...
Good luck.
A~
2007-03-01 18:50:13 · answer #3 · answered by BigMac2xk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This might sound stupid but fear is a great aphrodisiac.
Put yourself into unfamiliar situations, perhaps stressful situations. Rafting? Rock climbing? Horseback riding? Paintball? See what happens.
For example, our sex life was virtually dead until we were forced to suddenly move out of state due to job demands. The stress of moving really spiced things up.
2007-03-01 18:36:03 · answer #4 · answered by kappalokka 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
69
2007-03-01 18:33:13 · answer #5 · answered by sexii nini 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
set the mood. go on a date and have the house alone just you two and act like you are teens wild and free...check out books on the subject there is one called "we shoud do this more often" but I don't know the author...go to a sex store spice up the room with things like a love swing...
2007-03-01 23:41:23 · answer #6 · answered by Sonya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I have experienced the same thing. We have tried several things such as toys, dressing up in cute costumes, going to spend a night at a hotel and they all have worked pretty well.
2007-03-05 15:26:12 · answer #7 · answered by BamaBelle810 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trying dressing up and role playing or try some new moves. there is this show on HBO called Talk Sex With Sue, it is good and she has good pointer
2007-03-01 18:47:27 · answer #8 · answered by jumiboo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
plan a weekend away and stop by a sex store and see what he might like to try and keep your options open.
2007-03-01 18:36:58 · answer #9 · answered by mommysgirl78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why exactly the bathroom?
There are other rooms in the house.
Counter top, maybe!
2007-03-01 18:36:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋