2007-03-01 10:12:15 · 8 answers · asked by Alan 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Some women do experience some discomfort the first time they have sex. It all depends on several factors. If she has a hymen, it might hurt when it gets broken. If she is nervous, she might be tensing her muscles, making it painful during penetration. Also, if she is not lubricated enough, she might have some issues with friction.
The best thing you could do for her is to take it slow, use plenty of foreplay, and make sure she is ready before you start intercourse. She will be more relaxed and lubricated that way.
2007-03-01 10:29:29 · answer #1 · answered by aqx99 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's usually true. But not always. For me it just felt really uncomfortable. But after a few more tries, I got used to it and still love it! It hurts others because the vagina is TIGHT, it hasn't been broken in yet.
When the time comes, make sure there's lots of foreplay(kissing,petting etc) even if you're ready, that doesn't mean she's ready. Let her tell you when she's ready. That'll make it more comfortable for her, since it's her first time and also, it's very important that she's "wet" down there. If she's not, that'll definitely make her even more uncomfortable and could cause pain for her. Good Luck!
2007-03-01 18:32:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its very true. It hurts because when you enter her, your penis breaches her natural barrier, her hymen, which covers the entrance to her cervix. Assure her that your going to be as carefull as possible and that your not trying to hurt her. It may also help to take her mind off the pain by doing something else to one of her other pleasure centers. When I say pleasure centers, I mean those other spots that feel good for her. Just be carefull and sincere and you shouldnt have a problem. Oh, and dont forget to use protection.
2007-03-01 19:27:01 · answer #3 · answered by Samantha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all it hurts because there is a layer of skin that is broken when you first have sex.. and it soemtimes even hurts a few times after your first time also. Your girl migth even bleed and fi she doesnt it doesnt mean she isnt a virgin it only mean that maybe that skin has all ready ripped because of a way she streached or something... the best thing you can do is try going slow, dont rush it in.. because that will hurt her.... just be careful
2007-03-01 18:22:13 · answer #4 · answered by lovepixiek 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
for the girl yes it usually does because of the tearing of the hymen, but u don't have to feel bad cause she probably expects that there will be some pain , just take it slow and it'll be fine
2007-03-01 18:22:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes she will feel pain from to hymen breaking and also from penetration all the way inside her.
take it slow and easy and do not be totally inside her the first time take it inch by inch when she is comfortable also use lots and lots of lubrication and foreplay is important to relax her
2007-03-02 03:24:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For most women it's painful because the hymen is broken, the penis is larger, or she is tensed up. Don't rush it when it happens, let her call the shots.
2007-03-01 18:20:35 · answer #7 · answered by Shelley Osborn 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it sometimes hurts yes its just the hymen breaking
try taking things slow and make sure she is relaxed and well lubricated
2007-03-01 18:17:20 · answer #8 · answered by Natasha G 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋