Men: What do you think is the worst thing about the way most guys act?
Women: What do you think is the worst thing about the way most gals act?
Usually it's one side or the other harping on the other, so let's have a bit of honesty about ourselves this time. I'm a man, and I would say that a lot of guys just aren't sensitive enough to a gal's concerns. Most guys also don't take enough responsibility on themselves in a relationship. We also tend to make bodily noises more often then they do -- I guess that's a cultural thing. Oh, I know we often aren't forgiving enough when they're in their period (whether we know it or not), because we really don't have a clue about that. We get irritated too easily because they're emotional instead of logical like us, when that's what makes us who we are.
2007-03-01 10:11:30 · 13 answers · asked by Free Ranger 4 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
Oh I'm not going to harp on guys, two out of my four best friends are guys. They're just easier to get along with. The worst thing about women, I think is that we're awful viscous to each other. If somebody makes us mad enough, we're willing to spread some nasty rumors and stab a few people in the back. That's what I hate most about girls, and I know I'm guilty of it too, so its really a matter of the pot calling the kettle black.
2007-03-01 10:27:24 · answer #1 · answered by Samantha 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I am a woman and find it irritating on how competitive and aggressive SOME women can be towards each other.
I do not like how SOME women pretend to be stupid to get attention from men..
Men AND women: How insanely emotional SOME are when driving... calm down, the world is not out to get you...
2007-03-01 18:21:58 · answer #2 · answered by Myra G 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I hate that society demands that women compete against each other. Men have this sort of bond going on just because they're men. Why can't women be that way? Society has us hating each other because of unrealistic expectations.
As early as our elementary school years, girls learn that they can't be physically aggressive; they have to succumb to a tyranny of niceness (something isn't "ladylike" of is "unbecoming of a girl"). This leads us to employ different forms of indirect aggression towards each other out of jealousy, competition for resources, and vengeance. We ostracize each other through shunning, rumors, gossip, lies, back-biting, and sarcasm. We learn these things early, and they affect us throughout our lives. It needs to stop.
I hope that one day every woman will see every other woman as her sister, knowing that we all go through the same things, have the same worries, and are forced to fight for the equality that comes so easily to men.
2007-03-01 19:51:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
To answer the question for men, I believe that men who believe that people belong in a certain role because they have different sexual organs is foolish. I've met both intelligent and completely useless women, I've yet to find a common brush I can paint each of them with beyond the physical qualities they share.
2007-03-01 18:22:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 0⤋
Women that judge other women on the way they are dressed.
A lot of women are very manipulative of males. Let's try some honesty ladies.
Women are sexually competitive when men are around. It's a drag.
2007-03-01 22:15:11 · answer #5 · answered by Babydoll 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The worst thing I would say is the fact that women expect to get something for nothing.
2007-03-02 01:31:17 · answer #6 · answered by Bonzai Betty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Distaste for women who act like perpetual overprotective mother figures towards their boyfriend/husband. This would include but is not limited to:
-Cleaning up after him and taking resonsibility for all domestic chores
-Making excuses for him
-Accepting unwarrented blame
-Martyrdom
-Never challenging him or speaking up
-Assuming responsibility for his every thought, feeling and action.
-Instructing him to; comb his hair, brush his teeth, wash his hands etc..
-Coddling him as if he were an infant.
The list goes on. It really does.
All of this behavior is mutually degrading.
2007-03-01 19:32:56 · answer #7 · answered by Rain 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Some women buy into the stereotypes and double standards...I'm not talking about stay-at-home moms,I have tremendous respect for them, I'm talking about women who "squawk" that women aren't equal, and should ONLY, EVER, "stay at home."
2007-03-02 04:16:40 · answer #8 · answered by wendy g 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Gals are very hard on themselves and insecure. Most are overly dramatic, neurotic, vain and superficial.
Not to mention the ones that walk around dressed like little "whores" and wonder why they get treated like one.
Gals have many many flaws and make the rest of look bad.
I like to think that I am different then all the other gals, but then again, don't we all.
2007-03-01 18:24:36 · answer #9 · answered by A 2 · 2⤊ 3⤋
Most gals are ditzy and into drama all the time. All they do is gossip. I hate it. I'm not like that at all. It annoys me.
2007-03-01 18:19:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋