and date but never have sex or fool around? And btw this has been going on like this for quite a while
2007-03-01 10:07:50 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It may not be physical adultery - but it is emotional adultry. Becoming attached to another person (other than your spouse) in a romantic capacity is cheating - it's opening doors to intimacy that only the married couple should have.
2007-03-01 10:29:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like an emotional affair that is about to step over into physical. Looks pretty wrong to me.
The last time I cuddled a man who was not my husband was when a friend of the family who I think of as a brother found out his parents had both just died and had a breakdown.
2007-03-01 10:14:18 · answer #2 · answered by Poppet 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is wrong and yes it is cheating. Cuddling and kissing are intimate acts (and most would consider that fooling around), that should be reserved for your spouses. How would you feel if your husband had someone else that he cuddled with and kissed?
2007-03-01 10:54:43 · answer #3 · answered by C T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is cheating when taken people cuddle or are close to others! Sex isn't happening so it is not serious cheating, but if you are not there all the time, how do you know sex is not going on?
2007-03-01 10:12:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like it could lead to other things. You date another man, but not have sex? The only person you should be going on dates with is your spouse. This "innocent friendship" is heading to no good. Stop it now and focus on your marriage.
2007-03-01 10:11:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is still considered cheating even though you only cuddle and kiss. You are obvioulsy needing something that your spouse is not able to provide you.
2007-03-01 10:18:37 · answer #6 · answered by Lizzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i feel like if you keep kissing and pecking other people what in the world do you want with each other for.....because kissing and pecking leads to other things .....to whom ever is doing all this kissing and pecking ......be honest with yourself.....and get out of your marraige before something a little deeper happens and there is no turning back from it
2007-03-01 10:16:49 · answer #7 · answered by phattybiggums 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it depends on the extent of your "friendship" If you have been close for a lot of years and are not doing the "deed" but just a friend type of hug and kiss I see nothing wrong with it-
2007-03-01 10:12:38 · answer #8 · answered by kuriositykittykat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay... then you throw in the the words "and date" How can you be married and date and think that that is not cheating?
2007-03-01 10:18:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's CHEATING!!!
How would those people feel if their SPOUSES were the ones "kissing & cuddling"?? Betrayed? YES--which equals cheating!
2007-03-01 10:12:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋