2007-03-01 09:26:29 · 20 answers · asked by Tgirl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sorry this is sort of funny.
1. I agree with one of the previous post, both you and your husband should approach her and very firmly tell her to back off.
2. If you know anyone her age introduce them.
Good luck
2007-03-01 09:35:31 · answer #1 · answered by hayde_kat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't deal with the 30 years older woman that is pursuing your spouse. You deal with him. He can put a stop to it. IF he wants too...
2007-03-01 09:49:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No matter what age the female was, she would not be pursuing your husband unless he permitted it! Is all your husband has to do is tell her to get lost or lose the number. If he is not doing this, than I think it's time you and your husband have a talk.
2007-03-01 09:34:51 · answer #3 · answered by sue d 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The same way you deal with any woman pursuing your husband:
The 3 D's:
1. Drown.
2. Dissolve in acid.
3. Dispose.
2007-03-01 09:30:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Well it depends on what she is trying to pursue him into doing but on that note there is not really anything wrong with it as long a s they both agree on what is happening so if he likes it girl go all the way with it if not sit down and talk on what each other wants and what you both can do to resolve it.So then you both know what grounds one stands on
2007-03-01 09:33:30 · answer #5 · answered by lil brat 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It would help to know what type of Contacts she has with your husband. Do they work in an office together? Are they members of the same social club? Is she the wife of his boss?
One of the best way to get your point across to her is to say something to her like" Do you realize that you are older than his MOTHER?"
or "He thinks of you like a Mother."
2007-03-01 10:00:27 · answer #6 · answered by John Hightower 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Confront her. If you're in a situation where you're there and she's clawing at your husband, call her out. Tell her this is your husband and you'd appreciate it if she'd keep her hands to herself. if she keeps it up, punch her in the gut.
BTW, why hasn't your husband done anything about this? Seems like he would have told her to beat it a long time ago if he didn't like her advances... hmmmmm
2007-03-01 09:33:49 · answer #7 · answered by bodinibold 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
get a restraining order and make your husband tell her off.....if she thinks he is into her, she will pursue. if she still does it after he has told her to stop, she is a creepy obsessed woman and and needs the police to deal with her. she is probably some psycho stalker.
2007-03-01 09:33:33 · answer #8 · answered by SuzyBelle04 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
What I would like to know is, is your husband encouraging the pursuit? If he is seriously committed to you, you both can approach her and ask her to back off...but you need your husband's support for it. All the best, dear.
2007-03-01 09:30:52 · answer #9 · answered by Student 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Set her up with one of your older friends.
2007-03-01 09:35:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋