touch a woman's hand. I had a couple of experiences. Those touches last for only a FEW SECONDs. What I am curious about is what does such a brief touch do for them?
Again, guys perspective only. Thank you.
2007-03-01 09:13:47 · 14 answers · asked by artistic 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Thanks guys. Some of you have excellent perceptions. Great!
2007-03-01 09:44:05 · update #1
lol i guess its just an instinct for a guy to want to touch a girl/woman he is attracted too.
2007-03-01 09:19:04 · answer #1 · answered by dylan a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, a "few seconds" touch is not accidental. That's quite a long time for an accidental touch. An accidental touch only lasts less than a second.
Depending on the moment, a woman may feel "invaded" if your "few second" touch is unwanted. Basically, her personal bubble was just invaded. So, it may make her feel uncomfortable.
However, if she may take your touch as an advancement, she may like your touch.
2007-03-01 09:20:44 · answer #2 · answered by Scott D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most guys do the hand touch to let the woman know that they feel comfortable around them and that they most likely find the woman attractive. and generaly they will get aroused by thinking that the woman might feel the same way about them that they do. usually if u touch a womans hand and she doesn't pull away then that can be a sign that she is, at the very least, not repulsed by ur touch.
2007-03-01 09:19:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually it means we think you are attractive and it means something to us that you get the point that we are making. So we think that if we "touch" you that you'll get the point more fully.
I don't think it's a come on unless it happens a lot during the conversation. Mainly it's a "we like you, do you like us?" kind of thing. As in if you touch us back you think that we are cool also. But I honestly don't think it's a sexual thing because I am gay and i touch women when I am trying to make a point (for me it's a "sisterly" or "motherly" kind of endearment or bond that I am trying to invoke.
2007-03-01 09:28:56 · answer #4 · answered by erosrex 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any man who "accidentally/intentionally' touches a woman's
hand has serious problems and needs to be steered clear of.
I doubt that it is something that the 'toucher' can be arrested
for unless the touch becomes more physical, but 'touchers'
have a mental disorder.
2007-03-08 03:28:35 · answer #5 · answered by ha_mer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can slowly open the door in a non-threatening way. Grabbing your posterior is way too obvious and could led to rejection or a slap up side the head.
2007-03-01 09:20:59 · answer #6 · answered by mohayrix 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's like testing the water in a bath. You don't want the reaction to be either too hot or too cold; but you are thinking about taking a bath.
2007-03-01 09:20:16 · answer #7 · answered by Paul K 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
During conversation to:
a) To regain your attention if it appears to be wandering
b) To focus your attention ahead of a particularly salient point
Otherwise:
a) To gauge your reaction to physical contact
2007-03-01 09:24:15 · answer #8 · answered by Irish Eyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A passive-aggressive pass to see in the person is interested, maybe. If they smile and don't pull away, it usually means you have a better chance then if they give you a dirty look and back away.
2007-03-01 09:21:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they're finger fetishists. Who knows?
And again, WHY do women constantly look for meaning in random events?
2007-03-01 09:18:19 · answer #10 · answered by Guncrazy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋