how can i break up an engagement without anyone knowing it was me??

Question

my dads marrying an evil lady and i cant have that. i NEED to break these 2 up without them knowing it was me. how do i do it?????

Answer 1

wel yoU nede a plan liek in Freky fRidaey!

Answer 2

There is nothing you can do without becoming evil yourself. But if that's not a consideration there's lots you can do. Tape record her saying things unfriendly about dear old dad. Do a credit search via TRW or somebody like that. Talk to her EX get a set of behaviors on her which are not flattering and feed her ego. If she's out of friends, find out why? Build a slow but steady file on her, and most importantly, Does Dad Love Her Because She Is Evil. He's into leather. Maybe your wrong about her. She probably doesn't have open containers, and drugs in her car. She probably hasn't slept with minors. She's not typhoid Mary, and doesn't have HIV, I can't believe you'd mention these things.
Tell dad, that for a few thousand, he can buy your silence.

Answer 3

Listen any idiot on here that says you should not break them up is a liberal left minded idiot, ok. Anyone that thinks with their heart in a relationship and refers to the statement that he is going to marry someone evil saying maybe she makes him happy is nothing more than an idiot that has probably been crapped on all of their life in such a relationship in which they have mistook the need to be controlled as love. Controlling someone is not loving them it is using someone for your benifit through manipulation. Heres what you do you guerilla market posters about your dad giving all of his great qualities. Then after you interview qualified candidates you get to know them. Next you introduce them into his life subtle and slow get them close to him and help him realize what a hooker the other is. Then strike.

Answer 4

Oh grow up, that is just silly, of course they will know its you and all you will do is get everyone angry at you. This isn't a Disney film, this is real life and in real life adults can and do make mistakes. Do the grown up thing and ask for a sit down and explain to them whats making you nervous about her behavior, and what you would like them to do to reassure you that they have their eyes open to each other. Be honest, her just not being your mother won't do. You will get points for being able to discuss things without tears or wailing, or having a nasty mouth. If he still wants to marry her then be polite, it pays in the long run if you are just polite, not anything more if you can't do it, but why make them miserable just to please yourself?

Answer 5

You don't have the right, much less the ability, to break them up. Do you want people, including your father, interfering in YOUR love life (when you get one)?

Be honest and tell your father that you don't like his fiancee, and why. (What makes her so awful?) Ask him to consider your needs, and plead that he put off the wedding until all three of you enroll in family counseling. Once you all start talking in counseling, either you will discover she's not so evil, or your father will realize that she really is evil.

Answer 6

OMG! I wish I had thought of this, ofcourse my father marries a woman after knowing her for 3 months, they met on the internet. And He never told any of us he was getting married. And his wife was nice at first but she's a real evil lady as well. Simply, disagree with everything and pray that you can speak up during the wedding, if there will be one. Good Luck!

Answer 7

Try working out your issues with her and be the bigger person, but if you honestly think she may have bad intentions for your father then talk to him and tell him you think she's a gold digger or if you think she is evil why is she tell him how you feel.

Answer 8

your not going to be able to change dad's mind, as he loves her. she may be evil but when someone is in love they don't seem to see that persons faults, there is nothing u can do, better make friends with her as there is not a thing to be done.

Answer 9

how do you know she's evil? hopefully if she really is evil your dad will wake up and see her true colors and break up with her on his own.

Answer 10

it sounds like you are the evil one---undermining your dad's happiness. Grow up and get your own life and don't try to run his.

Answer 11

You don't!

Who are you to decide who is the right one for your Dad? I mean even if she is a fire breathing retch of a woman, if he doesn't see it, then you owe it to him to give her a shot. No one will kick him in the butt any harder than himself if it doesn't work out, but grow up and let it be...