I met a new guy, we get on well, we have a laugh together. Need advice?

Question

I broke up with my boyfriend and met a guy who has been in touch with me for a year.I had a laugh with him, and like him more and more as we meet up. Originally I didn't feel anything for him as I had just split from someone and was thinking of that guy.New guy had been hinting at a relationship with me 2 wks ago, but I didn't really reply etc. However now I like him more and more I think. We are doing some work for each other but I think that that was more of an excuse on his part to meet up with me.Today we met again and he was working on stuff for me.I was helping him. Then we got cosy on the couch, he is so chilled out that I liked it all. We ended up in bed and the chit chat was a laugh,we had a good laugh. After a couple of hours, he said he was therapy for me to get me back out there? I was like therapy? All other times he has been telling me I'm fantastic etc, now I'm thinking he just wanted to make me feel better. But why would he do that? We were never friends to begin with.

We are meeting up next week again for coffee, and to finish the work we are doing. But as for me and him together I don't know how that will go!

We were just texting now again. He said something friend. I said right friend. As in I got the hint.Then he said we are friends are we not? I said yes friends is good.
So that's it no more advice needed. Not going there, taking time out for myself!

Answer 1

Be a friend for now to see if your feelings change. And if he doesn't ask you out, just do it your self. If things become awkward then he's not worth it.

Answer 2

Sounds like he want some no-strings action, which might turn into something more who knows. it depends how you are, as you could see it as a good opportunity to see how you feel generally with another guy after not seeing someone for long time...