Does it bother you if people that you care for don't share your oppinion on a certain subject? Do you usually try to convince them that what you belive might be right? Does it make you feel somewhat angry if you fail?
2007-03-01 08:30:25 · 14 answers · asked by Sticky 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
yuup! And you both want to agree, but only on your own argument and neither will back down until the other has changed their minds...which never happens...:pxx
2007-03-01 08:33:04 · answer #1 · answered by Londonbaby 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It bothers me only a little bit when people I care for don't share my opinion on a certain subject. I will usually try to convince them but, if they are making it very clear that they won't even hear me I just drop it. I realize, eventually they will come to see I was right and that makes me smile.
2007-03-01 08:50:39 · answer #2 · answered by tooyoung2bagrannybabe 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. It bothers to me. I think this is human nature. It is true that I usually try to convince my views which I believe is right. I agree with you that there is always frustration if I fail over the issue. Although everyone has the right to choose or believe what he thinks is right but such behavior as you have described is quite normal and common for an ordinary man like me.
2007-03-01 08:50:49 · answer #3 · answered by Pramod 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be careful not to get mad. One thing I know is we tend to get mad when we are unable to convince someone of something we think is right. This is bad because it creates tension and resentment. Two things you dont want in a relationship. You should tell the other person what you think and let them make up their mind, dont try to convince them. What is more important being right or having someone resent you.
2007-03-01 08:34:43 · answer #4 · answered by Sentient6 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO WAY, MAN!
It don't bother me one little bit when someone disagrees with me.
Everyone is entitled to their own opinions and beliefs.
I NEVER try to change anyone! Why bother to try to change someone?
Don't be like that, man! You'll get nowhere in life if you constantly try to change the people around you. It's not right and it's not fair to treat them that way.
Behave and Take Care, man!
2007-03-01 08:35:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It bothers me when people try to get me to see their view point when i'm not interested. Timing is everything.
When someone is always voicing their opinion I often find myself in my head saying "shuuut up". =P It's better to see if someone is interested in the subject at all before trying to get into a deep conversation.
2007-03-01 08:38:26 · answer #6 · answered by grem 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cool question! My best friend sometimes doesn't tell me what's she's up too, then when she messes up tells me and ask for my opinion...
I don't get upset if my friends don't ask me for opinion...I think when you are a good friend you have to understand that people have the right of privacy and they don't have to share everything.
hope this helps
2007-03-01 08:37:50 · answer #7 · answered by John R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it does not bother me.
I never try to convince anyone of anything.
I raised my children to be independent thinkers, not to follow my
thinking just because I think it.
2007-03-01 08:41:05 · answer #8 · answered by hunterentertainment 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes because I feel that if they really cared about you, they would listen and accept your opinion. For example, I have nothing against Omish people, and my friends yelled at me for it. If they don't respect your opinion, the nmaybe they're not who you think they are
2007-03-01 08:36:03 · answer #9 · answered by talk2me.2224 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does bother me...when I'm trying to make a point they don't care of my opinion. It really makes me mad because what I am saying maybe right. Yes it does bother me badly exspecially when they know I'm right.
2007-03-01 08:34:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋