what do you like in a guy
looks,
personality,
habits,
and what totaly makes you not want the guy
2007-03-01 08:28:36 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
Good personality, kind and interesting. I also like a good sense of humor and intelligence. If he is nice looking, that is a plus.
2007-03-01 08:32:39 · answer #1 · answered by Florida Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every person is different and will like diff things in a partner... I would firstly like to say that if you are trying to attract a woman that you should definately be yourself... no use being somebody else to impress a certain lady and then having the relationship blow up later when u finally begin let ur true self out!!
Secondly - A few common traits that make anybody more attractive are:
- self-confidence (ppl will see you the way you see you... if you think your're unattractive others will pick up on that and think that too!)
- maturity (you can be as silly as you like but generally knowing which lines not to cross and when its time to act like a grown up are traits that are seriously SERIOUSLY underappreciated lol)
- health-concious (you dont have to be Mr. Athletic and eat the perfect diet but the more you take care of yourself the more it shows!)
- grooming (whatever style of fashion you choose is ultimately your personal choice, but whatever it is make sure you keep it groomed - clean urself, cut ur hair, shave, SMELL GOOD, lol whatever..... the least attractive thing on anybody is when they look messy or unclean!)
Just be the best you that you can be and I'm sure you'll attract the best lady for you :)
2007-03-09 05:42:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A quiet guy whos not a show off and who is more into me then himself. Someone thats mysterious and masculine. No pretty boys or muscle idiots. A niceguy with a great smile and a beautiful personality. A guy that wants to watch movies at home on a saturday night. I like a man thats not afraid to fix a car or hammer a nail, someone thats rugged.But most of all a man thats faithful and loyal.
2007-03-06 05:25:12 · answer #3 · answered by 3boys 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I want a guy who respects me, and is just...a good guy, I guess. Doesn't really matter about looks much, but it would be very nice if he's taller than I am-I don't like having to look down at guys; it weirds me out for some reason. He should be healthy-I'm a runner, and a bit of a health freak because of it. Be nice if he was a runner too. He has to be smart too; I can't stand stupidity at all. Just...someone who's like me, but not me. Which makes no sense, but oh well.
2007-03-01 08:53:28 · answer #4 · answered by Aurelia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First thing: Height; I am 5'10" so I start from there.
Second: Eyes; I prefer brown, but any twinkly happy eyes are nice.
Third: a screwy sense of humor is a must
Fourth, but probably first in terms of importance, I like a man who is gentle, caring, and affectionate
Security: he needs to be secure in himself, and who he is, without needing me to be 'less' than he is. I do hate that. The fact that I am a female does not lower my value as a person.
Turn off: having the attitude that the thing in his pants makes him God, and the fact that I don't have one means I better 'listen up' UGHHHHH!
I did find this man; and I married him last year ;)
2007-03-09 08:11:18 · answer #5 · answered by Icewomanblockstheshot 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kindness, to be treated with the up most respect. Opening the door, things like that. Also I like a sensitive man, one who expresses his feelings about things. Also when we are out together his attention is only on me. That will keep any girl interested. Take care and all the best.
2007-03-01 09:29:00 · answer #6 · answered by nursey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what i like most in a guy is how attentive he is to me when I am speaking to him. Hearing what I say is one thing but listening is another, so I love a guy who will listen when I talk, also, funny. Truly funny guys always know the right things to say to make his girl smile! I like guys who are natural around me. If you bite your nails, don't try to hide it, if you sleep in footy pajamas, let me know, cuz if we're together long enough, I am going to find out anyway!
I don't guys who are cocky, who spend more time getting ready than me, or guys that are always on the lookout for the girl that he thinks I should look like. Super turnoff!
2007-03-09 04:53:49 · answer #7 · answered by ruthie_richardson 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks are usually the first thing people notice - I mean lets be honest - if it's someone you don't know, it's the first and only thing (attraction) that usually draws you to people.
Now when going on knowing people - I look for personality, how they act toward others, honesty, truthworthy, beliefs, how compatible we are as a couple, and so on. Looks aren't everything, it's what's inside that matters most.
As far as turn offs - yelling, violent behavior and swearing a lot!!
2007-03-01 08:38:45 · answer #8 · answered by reandsmom77 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He has to be a tall, funny computer geek with impeccable hygeine that knows his way around a kitchen. Broad shoulders and blue eyes seal the deal.
Bad breath, sweaty pits, body odor, or repeated bad haircuts are not good.
2007-03-09 02:37:32 · answer #9 · answered by wwhrd 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like him to have good looks, personality and good habits The three are equally important for me. what makes me not want him is to be a crook.
2007-03-01 08:37:45 · answer #10 · answered by Balsam 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋