When I sleep, I love for my man to hold me.
Is this such a bad thing??
My best friend told me it is a bad thing b/c guys are such horndogs.
My b/f says he doesn't mind b/c I am like 5'0 and like 90lbs
She says it is too much of a turn-on and they cannot keep to themselves
Why do parents automstically assume, if this happens they have done the deed??
2007-03-01 08:15:09 · 10 answers · asked by Nicoletta 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
aw plz done the deed if he wants to hold u then let him and guys r not horndogs....
2007-03-01 08:21:12 · answer #1 · answered by prower2 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No its not a bad thing. All girls like that.
Yes, sometimes guys can have a little trouble, but if you have made your limits clear to him, then he won't. Also, we aren't idiots, we know when girls just want to be held as to when they want...a little more.
Of course he doesn't mind - that's why he's your boyfriend
Yes, its a turn on, and you may feel *something* pop up (depending on how close you are), but that doesn't mean he just has sex on his mind. That means he really likes you and is physically attracted to you.
Parents assume that because it can often lead to that. Not always, but parents want to be certain so they don't even want the temptation to be there.
2007-03-01 16:26:05 · answer #2 · answered by milan 4 · 5⤊ 0⤋
I love to cuddle with my bf too and I think there is nothing better in the world than falling asleep with the person you love. It is definately not a bad thing hun, you like to be close to your man. That's not weird at all. Guys aren't dumb, they know if you want their love or if you want their *lovin*. Most guys would be happy to lay there and hold their girl. And parents are going to worry about their kids having sex any way you look at it.
2007-03-01 18:45:49 · answer #3 · answered by Sa♪ah ツ 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Guys who always want to "do the deed" don't have any self control. Many, many times have I held my lady and we drifted off
to sleep. The next morning we both enjoyed the glow of each other's warmth. That is love!
2007-03-01 16:30:29 · answer #4 · answered by SlownEasy 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I love to be held by a man. Its the best thing while I am sleeping.
Parents are just parents, they are always going to think that their daughters are going to have sex!
2007-03-01 16:22:33 · answer #5 · answered by Miss Sassy 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
that's not so bad...what could be wrong with that?
if a couple love each other then that is normal...in fact its a sweet thing. You are a sweet lover and a very loving one if i may say.
that position doesnt necessarily mean that you already had sex. its a sweet thing SWEETIE! ^_^..
2007-03-05 10:50:10 · answer #6 · answered by 分類される 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Coming from experience it is hard for a man to just hold you without at least becoming aroused....and once aroused it is hard for them to control their urges....I have been with my husband for 9 years now and he still can't just hold me without expecting sex to follow!
2007-03-01 16:23:22 · answer #7 · answered by mom2ace 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You like to cuddle...so do most guys. Cuddling does not automatically lead to sex. Once kissing joins cuddling though...all bets are off!
2007-03-01 16:21:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
cus guys are like that!! only time a guy wont do the deed is cus hes scared or a virgin....
2007-03-01 16:19:37 · answer #9 · answered by c t 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
because they care about you.
2007-03-01 16:31:47 · answer #10 · answered by speedy >>> 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋