ok so i can have them if i do it myself it takes a long time tho or if im in the shower :) but my boyfriend who i have been with for 4 years cannot make me have one im just wandering what are somethings ur man does to u or u do to ur girl to make it easier to have one?
2007-03-01 07:50:13 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
That is normal for a women now a days. If you give yourself orgasms your body is use to the way you touch and what feels right and what does not. The other person such as a boyfriend would not know this. What I suggest is try on top while sitting on the couch or bed sometimes that friction will help or if that still doesn't work then try giving yourself an orgasm by rubbing while having sex. Sometimes that helps. I've been with my husband for 5 years and still to this day I have better luck with having an orgasm then my husband. And you can't be shy.. I hope this helps
2007-03-01 08:12:45 · answer #1 · answered by ldexternh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think I can help you, YOU NEED TO SPICE IT UP, now I know I am a guy and but listen I am sorry if anything is offensive I don’t intend it to be. It has been proven that spontaneous sex, random sex, public sex is the best sex. Just by changing your routine you can change that. I bet you have sex in the same room, same bed, same routine which is fine but boring! And does not matter how old you are, who you are! One of these days go park in some parking lot jump in the back seat and go for it knew setting. You might discover something you never knew about your self. The thought of getting caught is a rush all in its own. Get a jar and write down every crazy place you could think of doing it in your house or any where on peace of paper and every time the mood cums up go randomly pick one out and try it. I have done it in the Automatic carwash booths you know the one's that you drive up to and put some money in and just drive forward. That wash lasted about 7min and so did we both.
And one other thing I have been dating my girlfriend for 4yrs as well and we try to limit our selves to having sex I just for the fact that when it does happen it is the best and both have that first time feeling all over again. It’s like when you "Hungry" right away you start think of what to eat and go eat just like that. But if you were to go a day with out food, now you’re starving for food. Do get what I am trying to say? If you go lets say two months maybe more maybe less. With out masturbating or any such activities then you well probably will be starving. I hope this help
2007-03-01 10:23:19 · answer #2 · answered by Jay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so some distance as i understand, masturbation has no risky actual side outcomes (some thoughts have even urged that standard ejaculations shrink lower back the prospect of prostate maximum cancers). Of course if it particularly is going to become your considerable intercourse act and you do it so usually you will: - think of maximum probable wiped out, that helps you to negatively have an effect on your paintings, social existence - be so disinterested in females, which you in basic terms could not meet any so i may well be extra advantageous irritating approximately opposed psychological side-outcomes, you turning out to be some variety of maniac interacting maximum effective at the same time with your self. As for reducing it, in simple terms wait. The day you have gotten a woman on your existence, or the day you're 40 5, you will masturbate much less / by no potential! ;-)
2016-12-18 03:31:03 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the shower there is less friction, try that with the bf. Not necessarily the shower but lubricant. (I'm not saying the shower isn't good because it can be a very)
2007-03-01 07:56:24 · answer #4 · answered by knittinmama 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same situation, I can do it alone but my boyfriend of 2 years rarely can. But what works for us is if I'm on top. I recomend you try that!Good Luck!!
2007-03-01 07:54:48 · answer #5 · answered by **La Bella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you taking any medications? Some can cause delayed orgasm.
2007-03-01 07:54:09 · answer #6 · answered by MailorderMaven 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try different positions, and show him what you like. You can also lead him with your hand on top of his.
2007-03-01 08:33:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
have lots of foreplay and tell what exactly you do for yourself so he can make you orgasm the way you do it to yourself
2007-03-01 08:02:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you need to masturbate vigorously to orgasm you might have phimosis or it could be your boyfriends fault.
2007-03-01 16:16:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
foreplay- fingering and oral sex.. The mood has a lot to do with it also.
2007-03-01 08:59:01 · answer #10 · answered by baby_wrestler 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋