keep in touch. He first was making excuses to get together again and after I was severely hurt by him I pulled back. We have continued are communication but its me that keep making excuses to get together with him because I dont' want to get hurt. Honestly, he is everything to me. What do I do?
2007-03-01 07:40:35 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Let me explain "everything". He has the qualities I desire in a man yet past timing has made it difficult for me to pursue this. However, I cannot stop thinking about him and how sweet he was. I'm far from a stalker !
2007-03-01 07:49:52 · update #1
Interesting how you kept the entire story from everyone ..
well my dear I did make effort, I contacted you after the fact and I kept intouch .. its funny how it was you that kept making excusses and lets not forget to tell everyone how you moved on in little then 2 months .. yeah moved on to another and left me waiting for you .. I made the effort to come see u but u kept insisting meeting at the mall what for ?....hang out? .. sorry I dont window shop..maybe you had much to hide at home... now you are left with the guilt cause of your action .. I did nothing wrong but I assured you after that it wasn't going to be a one time thing by keeping it real with you, still went after you and wanted to be with you..
so before you sit here and cry a river keep in mind there's two sides to every story.... Maybe your next one will have a happy ending ...
2007-03-04 05:52:13 · answer #1 · answered by sinner881 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's everything to you? Wow, you don't have very high standards do you. You met this guy once, so you know nothing about him except that he can be cruel. He was a fling. The communicating thing doesn't count as knowing someone. It's easy to put your best face forward in emails, ims and the phone especially when a guy is looking for sex.
My advice is to have more pride in yourself. Your missing the excitement of the situation more than your missing him. You're instincts to stay away from him are correct.
2007-03-01 15:50:52 · answer #2 · answered by JB 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
number 1 get over him number 2 seek a therapist not cause of him but because of yourself. You need to love yourself before you can love someone else, also im guessing you have a problem with getting close to people and relationships in general and plus its not good to jump into anything especially if you only met this guy once.( guys dont like clingy gurls) Im not saying your crazy but you do have some issues as other people have other issues. But you should work on them and forget the guy for awhile . Put youself first , if it was meant to be then it will be.. besides theres soooo many guys out there
2007-03-01 16:01:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know what you mean! I had an affair with a woman two years ago that was perfect for me. I really wish i would have stayed but i tried to do the right thing with the wife and stay. Nothing but regret ever since. I still think of her every single day.
2007-03-01 16:07:39 · answer #4 · answered by The Answer Guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can never be happy in life if you are not happy with yourself. You need to forget about this person and work on yourself. This person was just a one time fling and you're crazy about him? Its time to re-evaluate your life!
2007-03-01 15:48:46 · answer #5 · answered by Brown eyed girl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What? You said that this person hurt you, you kept in touch with him and you can't get him off your mind...and he's everything to you??? You've got issues. Forget about him.
2007-03-01 15:47:54 · answer #6 · answered by KoKo.Licious 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
get a dog if you need daily love and affection. don't just rely on a fling because the guy had a fling with you and he probably had more flings with other girls
2007-03-01 15:47:20 · answer #7 · answered by Lupita 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How can someone you had one little fling with be EVERYTHING to you???? You sound a little off lady...honestly.....someone you share day-to-day lifes's ups and downs, a home, holidays, lazy weekends...etc....thats your "everything"....get a grip...this all just sounds scary...I wouldn't be surprised to learn you had stalked someone.
2007-03-01 15:45:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would tell him how you feel about him.(pour your heart and soul out to him.)I would at least give it a try. Who knows he might be your soulmate. That's what i would do if i could notstop thinking about a guy.
2007-03-01 15:46:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just make sure first before you fall all over him that you are not on the "booty call" phonebook list of his phone first..
2007-03-01 15:58:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋