My bf is married for 10 yrs.now but still with his wife but no s** anymore.And the girl knows that her husband is having an affair to another women before me.You think,my bf's wife love him or not?They dont do anything anymore,my bf's wife confirmed it to me.Then,what is the real reason why they still stay together?You think,freedom for my bf to cheat?Why his wife allow him to cheat her?You think she still loves him?Or they just stay together because the woman is secured,since she's already nearly 50 and my bf is past 35?I couldnt understand why they still with each other if no sex at all anymore?Can we say that my bf is cheating her?Please,I am so confused..
2007-03-01 07:20:32 · 20 answers · asked by Volkan Ozdemir 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
worry about yourself this is way way too much drama
2007-03-01 08:00:55 · answer #1 · answered by swimmyfishy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YES,YES,.....not only cheating on his but also cheating on you!!!!The reasons they are still together???? money mattres,children ,family,friendship????he and his wife can only answer this!But if can have an affair on his wife,what makes you so special? Do you know besides his wife are you the only womean he is with?..You yourself have to look at the big picture...what is it you want out of this realionship???..NOT COMMITMENT...I feel you should dump this guy,your questioning the realonship !!! You will never be totally happy with a man that can not let go of the past and can not plan a future with you.....move on..move up...starting filling your needs, NOT HIS !!sorry if this is not the answer you were hoping !!!!! but it is at least honest!!!!
2007-03-01 07:36:35 · answer #2 · answered by Corey 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She probably still loves him, but is majorly attached to him. Just because she leaves won't stop him from cheating. If they are so unhappy why doesn't he leave? Does he still love her? He's the one you need to be questioning, not her. He's the one moving on sexually, not her. He's the one with the open sexual relationship. And what about you? Does he love you? Do you think he's cheating on you? Talk to him, not her. He's the one who's got you two linked in the first place. Good Luck.
2007-03-01 07:33:39 · answer #3 · answered by lamonross80 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, if he is telling you there is no sex between him and his wife, he is a lying sack of crap (and she confirmed it? That is just nuts). Second, YES he is cheating on his wife, EVEN if she says go for it (which I highly doubt). Why are you mixed up in this mess? There is obviously no future in this. You say you are confused, well I am confused at your situation as well.
Get out of this while you can. Good luck.
2007-03-01 08:09:17 · answer #4 · answered by Aquaria 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is cheating, but it sounds like an open marriage to me more than cheating. What kind of future would you two have if he is not willing to divorce her? What is the next level your relationship will go? These are the questions you need to ask yourself and him. Think about protecting yourself from getting hurt in this situation.
2007-03-01 07:26:46 · answer #5 · answered by mlock123 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think of in marriage you may desire to come to a determination what you will handle. And for that's diverse for each individual. So i would not dare decide a female that enables her guy to cheat. that's her employer. If it somewhat works for them and that they are somewhat chuffed then it somewhat is sweet for them. i glance at it this style. Many female have husband that have jobs wherein they're "married to artwork" They actually chosen artwork over each little thing else. artwork comes previously the spouse, previously the kinfolk, previously each little thing. and human beings infrequently decide those different halves for coping with husbands like this. i in my opinion might hate it. it somewhat is the reason I by no potential had to marry a well being care expert or a criminal expert etc. -- so a procedures as your individual marriage. you do no longer could desire to publish with something you do no longer desire to. in case you do no longer desire to look any opposite direction with dishonest. Then do no longer look any opposite direction. Many adult males do no longer cheat (mine would not)-- so there are devoted adult males around.
2016-12-18 13:10:51 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU wouldn't understand. Marraige combines and complicates things, financially, emotionally, and all kinds of other issues that they have built together. After all those years, why would he leave a home, spend money on a divorce and pull up roots, to shack up with a Gf and have to support her too?
Why buy the cow when you can get the milk on the side?
2007-03-01 07:26:41 · answer #7 · answered by juicy13500 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It kinda sounds to me that if she knows about you and lets her husband do it, then maybe thats just there marital agreement. Who knows why she stays. But it doesnt really sound like thats any concern of yours. But do you realy see a future with a man who wont leave his wife? This one is definately in the wierd catagory.
2007-03-01 07:27:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
As long as he is married, he is NOT your boyfriend, he is just a married man using you for sex.
Sorry, don't mean to be harsh....get out of this girl! This is a lose-lose situation for you! His wife and him get the security, he gets the free sex, and you get nothing!!! USE YOUR HEAD HERE!
2007-03-01 07:37:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is probably comfotable with him and doesn't want to look for anyone else, she is not in love with him, but loves him as a person, she wants him to be happy, but is more secure in having him around to take care of her, maybe not in a sexual way, but she obviously cares nothing for him in a romantic way...or she has a man on the side herself and it takes away her guilt. May not be correct in this, but it is my opinion
2007-03-01 07:29:07 · answer #10 · answered by countrygrl278 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You soun like you from across oshun. Day stil stay tewgedder becuz she hab no sef respeck. He need to man up and decide what he want. He no want her? He no want you? He need to make heap big desishun.
2007-03-02 05:38:43 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋