Should i tell people that im gay?

Question

i have a girlfriend and i want to tell people but im afraid to....

Answer 1

Do it!

Answer 2

should you tell people you are a sinner. should you tell people you sat on the can this morning . should you tell people you farted yesterday. should you tell people how much money you make . should you tell everyone how you hated a person . should you tell people you love them
should you tell people you human.
i understand that sin comes to us all . satan is real . some he tempts with the desire for great power. others he tempts with lust . others he misleads into having just one bite of one apple.
should you run through the garden telling everyone you ate the apple and they should too.
how about you tell god your gay first . let that set for a time listen to what he says . really listen then do what he says.
oh he wrote this book its a great book easy to find to its called the bible read that. he had some easy to follow rules in there.
i suggest you do that then ask yourself this same question again its up to you and to him . let him help you with this matter.
maybe you will find a new answer none of us have ever heard
who knows only god . and you if you stop listen and look.

Answer 3

You don't have to tell anyone who isn't impacted by it directly. You might tell your friends so they stop trying to fix you up with their fugly cousins who are visiting from out of town or your parents so they can set one more plate at Thanksgiving. You should decide who needs to know. If you are excited about it and just want to tell someone how happy you are then pick a close friend and let them know that you have a girlfriend, they should be happy for you. If they aren't find yourself someone else to gush to about it.

Answer 4

I say be proud of who and what you are tell the world and if they can't accept you for who you are than screw them. All that should matter is that you and your woman are happy. Anyone who turns your back on you are small minded and can't see past the lines and will regret doing that to you. Believe me I know the feeling cause I went thru the same situation not to long ago.

Answer 5

You have to weigh the person first.

You may not tell them,only when they ask you- but if they ask you... you must have practiced how to say it with an introduction... they seem to accept it better than being shocked (if it's not obvious that you are).

It depends in your environment. People over react. It's a gamble, no one can really tell you.

Answer 6

Try to focus on things other than worrying about how others will react and work on building up your confidence. Good luck and be happy and true!

Answer 7

It depends. Do you know how the people you would tell, feal about Gays? If it would upset them, maybe it's not a good idea.

Answer 8

You sound awfully young to be "coming out". (If I am wrong about your age, I apologize)
If they need to know, tell them. I know that this has to be one of the hardest things to tell your friends, parents and siblings but it has to be done eventually.
If you are of an age that you are positive of your sexual identity - it is time.
Good luck

Answer 9

The only way to come out of the closet is to step out.

Answer 10

I think so!! U just did girlie. What do you have to hide, if they cant accept you then oh-well. Dont worry, be happy. Good luck

Answer 11

just tell them. if they can't accept it, then they're just stupid- you are who you are, and there is no point pretending to be somebody else just because you're afraid. just be yourself, it always works out in the end!