What's the best way to tell overweight women you're not interested when the reason is their weight?
2007-03-01 06:14:07 · 14 answers · asked by 1REWD1 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
How did my post end up in this section?! Sorry people!
2007-03-01 06:23:13 · update #1
All good answers though, except #1 (tried it, didn't stop a thing ..... although I think that answer was a personal jab at me). And the heavy equipment comment was wrong.
2007-03-01 06:26:49 · update #2
You say, "Sorry, I am not interested." Mentioning their weight would be rude. If they persist, you are allowed one "Sorry, not my type" but realize they may catch on to the weight discrimination.
You are making a choice here based on your preferences. Feel absolutely no need to defend it.
2007-03-01 06:19:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think polite rejection, shows character, and compassion. If you are not interested in someone for a physical reason, there is no need to hurt their feelings. Tell them something that is more general, you are not interested in a relationship, or your studies or job is where your focus lies right now. Sometimes honesty is not the best policy. To be kind, and considerate, shows integrity.
2007-03-01 14:29:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell them that you have other plans that involve this 5ft 5in hot little blonde that goes 36x22x36 and has lots of extra talents that she demostrated to you the other night. Or, you could just come out and tell her, your too fat for me. However, don't just look at the cover and assume what the story is all about. Some of chubby gals are hot tamalies. And most of them are well manned and polite.
2007-03-01 14:31:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just as you would with anyone you did not find personally attractive (ie I like dark bearded guys, so "smooth" boyish men turn me off): "I'm really not attracted to you, but you're a lot of fun to be with. Can we just go to movies (or whatever) and not date?"
2007-03-01 14:19:22 · answer #4 · answered by tracymoo 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just tell the truth...
"I am shallow and disqualify fat pigs like you without getting to know them. Go lose some weight, then I will have sex with you and never talk to you again."
2007-03-01 14:24:28 · answer #5 · answered by Squirrely 2 · 1⤊ 3⤋
"I'm sorry, i'm just not into you like that" Honest but polite.
And if that doesn't work, bring out the harsh truth. You don't want them, so if they won't listen to your feelings, why listen to theirs?
2007-03-01 14:22:46 · answer #6 · answered by Xavier 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You don't have to mention the weight; just tell her she's not your type.
2007-03-01 14:20:07 · answer #7 · answered by Xiomy 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
LIE! just tell them that you dont want to be with anyone due to a bad relationship. Or brual honesty. say you dont feel safe opperating heavy machinery.
2007-03-01 14:19:10 · answer #8 · answered by Bobby the WOOD Heenan 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋
You should ask the guys in the Straight side of the house. They have more experience there.
2007-03-01 14:18:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
don't tell her its her weight that wouldn't be very polite just say you are not interested.
2007-03-01 14:20:11 · answer #10 · answered by joe d 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋