I had been in an abusive gay relationship for over 20 years, from physical, to emotional to sexual abuse. It’s now been 5 year and have seemed to recovered somewhat, however have been in a legal battle with my x for the last 4 years to get my fair share of our estate.
I have tried everything legally as to not play the abuse card, however now I feel I need to tell it all. I had suppressed this part of our relationship, partly out of embarrassment and mostly to spare my family and his family the public humiliation.
Not sure what to do, I keep going back a forth, should I just give in and let him have what he wants and move on with my life. But part of me thinks that if I do I’ll be letting him abuse me again and again in my mind until I die.
2007-03-01 05:53:55 · 1 answers · asked by Mark B 1 in Politics & Government ➔ Law & Ethics
I hope you already told your attorney about the "full story", and if you did then, hey your paying him the big bucks to help you make the right decisions, at least he should be concerned about your best interest. What would you tell a friend who came to you seeking advice and your story was his story? Then I say follow that advice.
I hope that made sense.
2007-03-01 06:05:21 · answer #1 · answered by kmv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋