2007-03-01 05:17:15 · 26 answers · asked by Jen 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
WELL IF ITS IS MOM OR SISTER OR SOMEONE LIKE THAT THEN IT IS OKAY. OTHER WISE HE SHOULDN'T BE LOOKING IN THE FIRST PLACE.
2007-03-01 05:24:25 · answer #1 · answered by rebekah g 2 · 1⤊ 4⤋
Okay when he got married did he also become blind? Of course it alright for a man to tell another woman she looks good if that is what he feels. It is what he does after that, that is important. You already have him where is the threat?
2007-03-01 14:05:20 · answer #2 · answered by Cheryl R 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ask yourself , could his compliment be said verbatim to his mother or sister ? If your answer is no , then he may have gone to far ! Second question , how is your intimate relationship with your husband ? Unless he has always been a flirt , you may stem this behavior by reinvigorating your love life . If your the other woman , remember that it only takes a word to stop unwonted behavior .
2007-03-01 13:41:36 · answer #3 · answered by Froadrick 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
That's a slippery slope.It depends on the situation but it is not a good idea to throw out those type of compliments all the time and why would you want to.
2007-03-01 16:20:24 · answer #4 · answered by Pimpstick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends, was he leering at her (you?) with his tongue hanging out?
Yes, it's okay to compliment the opposite sex even if one or both of you are married. It's the non-verbal cues to watch out for - is there extended eye contact? Is there a general vibe? If not, it's no big deal.
2007-03-01 13:27:12 · answer #5 · answered by §Sally§ 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No! I don't think that would be a good thing to do! The only woman a married man should tell that to is his wife!!!
2007-03-01 13:23:11 · answer #6 · answered by Catarina Malfoy 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
It depends. Did he really say it as a human to other human because life for him is going good and he was in a great mood. Or did he say it out of lust. There's a difference.
2007-03-01 14:32:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure why not. It is nice to hear from anyone that you may look good. Its not like he is asking her out. Not everyone has an alterior motive when they say things like that. I have told a few married men that they look good. Its a compliment.
2007-03-01 13:24:22 · answer #8 · answered by beaches 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
it depends on the circumstances. ie he didn't see this girl for a while and when he saw her again her acne cleared up. then it would be ok to tell her she looks good. But most of the time its inappropriate.
2007-03-01 14:00:20 · answer #9 · answered by Chrissilicious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Married men are married, not dead. They will continue to notice women all their lives.
It isn't ok for them to act on this by having affairs though.
2007-03-01 13:21:59 · answer #10 · answered by diannegoodwin@sbcglobal.net 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If your bf says other girls look good, it's ok. If he starts looking at men and says they look good, then you can start to worry! I look at women all the time and say the same to my wife, but also I tell her, my wife, that she's still better looking, to me! As long as he looks but doesn't touch it's O.K.! Best Wishes, Take Care!.
2007-03-01 13:28:59 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋