i met a guy for 3 times. he is nice and i think he likes me. he sometimes invited me for coffee or movie.
last time, when i called him, he let me know that he was on business in another city for 2 weeks and he would call me when he is back to the city.
besides, it is already 18 days since he began his trip but he has not contacted me at all. Why is that?
what should i do now:
- just wait. if he doesnt call, then leave him alone
- call him
- send him text message
Is it possible that he lost my phone number or was sick or had accident?
p.s: he is a foreigner living in my city
2007-03-01 05:08:44 · 9 answers · asked by espiritgirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
touch base with him....text is good
2007-03-01 05:13:14 · answer #1 · answered by coffee37man 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well well well. What do u know. Some body is in a crush......
Worlds all rosy. Dreams seem reality. Long plans about life. Sweets talks over coffe. Musy looks. Romantic evenings.
And then all of a sudden a goodbye and then a good bye. U know its very difficult to stop urself at this point and be rational. U do not have to b rational in love sweety. But I tell u what, when I ever I look at a beutiful car, some one else is driving it. The most beutiful house in town is not mine and worst of all, a article will always go down in price when I have brought it for a costlier price. So life can be unfair when u go for best.
Best things are already taken.... Might be in ur case very well.
So in a nut shell don't be a nut.
Call him up staright. U wouldn't be able to sleep if u do not. Send a text message. A normal one. Say that u thought he was back in the city, but darling be aware.
People, do not disappear like this when they like u. They remain in touch. How I know that???
Well I know this becoz, I can not leave my girl like this whatever may be the scene. Now without an explaination ofcourse.
I understand that there is no defined relation between u but then u are leading some where. I would not advice u to stop. I wud recommend that u go ahead and check out the exact scenario. Find out what he feels for u, settle the dust that this incident has disturbed.
May be it turns out that the poor guy was very busy. May him pay for that, ask him to give a dinner as a penance for his careless ness.
May ur heart show u the way to true love. And may this be him..
Note:- If u get him, i understand i get a treat frm u as well.
kidding......
all the best.....
2007-03-01 05:36:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm... i think he has other 'things' going on. i don't know about these stupid a.s.s responses that are telling you that he is married... but i do think that he is getting his need met in this trip, its been over 2 weeks since he has made contact. i think, and i'm sorry to tell you this, that you have to move on. i don't think you should be waiting at home waiting for the phone to ring, you should do your life, and meet more guys, that way, if he ever calls, you won't be waisting your time and energy on him, and you can just give him the boot, if that is what you wish. good luck hon.
2007-03-01 05:23:00 · answer #3 · answered by confused 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THis is a thought for to ponder.... I would text him and say....Hi this is so and so.You haven't called latly here is my number just in case u lost it. If he calls u back then there u go....if he doesn't call u back then toss his number and move on
2007-03-01 05:15:52 · answer #4 · answered by lizzybee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most likely, it was for him a "nice" way to let you know he's not interested. Don't contact him - if he was interested, he WOULD call. Move on.
2007-03-01 05:18:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, first off, meeting a guy for coffee 3 times hardly makes him 'YOURS'...with that said, 18 days .....he's no doubt married
2007-03-01 05:13:15 · answer #6 · answered by abc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wake up...hes married
2007-03-01 05:12:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
humm maybe he is married ! do not call him .. let him call you ..
2007-03-01 06:23:02 · answer #8 · answered by blueflowerscs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's married honey
2007-03-01 05:12:22 · answer #9 · answered by brandylyn_kay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋