2007-03-01 04:55:48 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Hi, i reckon you should take a long cold shower and think what it is you really want, do you still want to be with your boyfriend do you want to loose the love and respect of your b/f just so you can satisfy your current sexual furstraions?.
Have you expressed your feelings to your boyfriend about your current situation regarding the passion in your relationship?, if not i think thats where you should start.
Communication breakdown in relationships is a major problem, if a relationship gets a bit "stale" and you find yourself just going with the flow not perpared to bring a subject up least it upsets the boat. That may be the foundation to your eyes and mind wondering. Try and keep all contact with this other bloke at a minimum and dont find yourself talking to him alone, always have either your b/f or a friend around when in his company.
2007-03-01 05:07:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is very hard to stay in love with one person for a long time. However, if it is really love that you feel for one person, than I would have to gander that it is not really love you feel for the other. There is a difference between loving someone and being IN love with someone. However, if this is tormenting you then you have no choice but to do some remembering.
Do you remember why you fell in love with the person you currently are tied to? Did you agree to be exclusive? How would you feel if the shoe were on the other foot BEFORE you had feelings for this other person?
If your loved one doesn't already know that you are tormented, they are either not very observant or you are a really good actor. Either way, it would be easiest to stay honest with yourself. When you first met your current person, did you really believe you could ever love anyone else? If you can remember that feeling, you will make the right choice. If you can't , then you probably haven't really been in love before. If you agreed to be exclusive, you should re-evaluate your reasons for doing so. Above all else, don't lie to anyone.
2007-03-01 05:09:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally I think you can LOVE one person and have feelings towards another, but these tend to be more like attachments than actual love or being in-love.
If you are in a situation where you crave a lot of attention, you may seek out "love" in others.
I'd suggest you consider which person you truly have feelings for and which you just like being around.
It's unfair to the 2 people to "love" them both, so take a deep look inside yourself and choose 1 and let the other go for good.
2007-03-01 05:01:24 · answer #3 · answered by Ravii 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're in love with someone else, but you love another person??? Boy are you mixed up !! Why don't you just start all over again, maybe it will come out different next time ?
2007-03-01 05:31:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in love with two people at the same time as well... & they both had the SAME NAME! one lived on the west coast & one on the east coast...its not impossible...you have to go with what your heart says....look at the big picture...who is the kindest, most respectful, & who is always there for you...dont go with money cause that kind of love dosent last....even if you choose the one you think you really love, there will ALWAYS be that certain kind of "special love" for the person you did not choose....
Good Luck, Keep the Faith, Pray to God...you'll know what to do!
2007-03-01 05:04:51 · answer #5 · answered by east2west92 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what happened has happened and now u understand u cant be at the same time first u would desire to settle for u cant be at the same time to any extent further as u the two dated for an prolonged time and then dont push urself right into a relationship while u are uncertain because it particularly is going to lower back bitter the flaws up and would finally end up as a failure wait till ultimately u r waiting or till ultimately u discover the appropriate one in simple terms love it particularly is declared time is the drugs for all wounds
2016-12-18 03:22:16 · answer #6 · answered by lacy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats easy. Stay with the one that your IN love with.
Take care.
2007-03-01 05:00:02 · answer #7 · answered by X-Woman 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, only one per customer. You cannot do that unless your planning to join a commune or something. Make up your mind, and pick one.
2007-03-01 05:00:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
what da *** u are just confuse how could u love 2 people at the same time
2007-03-01 04:58:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am in the same situation but i cant have either person so yeah
2007-03-01 04:59:42 · answer #10 · answered by Lena 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋