I have been in a relationship with my bf man for five years. I have been having doubts about our relationship. When we have free time it is during the weekend or parts of the week. During our freetime we usually hang out with his family and our friends we haven't had a time out of the house where it is just us both. The only time together when we are driving to do errands, sleeping together at night or going out to the restaurant. We haven't had sex for over a year and a half, because he feels guilty and what I had said about my parents expectations of our relationship should be based on, I have been accusing him (which I am getting help) and I feel he might be having sex with another person. As of now to be intimate we cuddle or kiss which I feel I need more than that, whenever we are about to do it or if I initiate it he says we will do it another time. I am frustrated overall especially when he doesn't remember doing it when he initiates it when he was half asleep..
2007-03-01 04:28:56 · 3 answers · asked by dunnogirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Ok no sex in a year and a half.. You have every reason to believe he is cheating. If it is too late to spice it up ...get out.. life is too short. Ok the accusations and the pressure from your parents are not helping at all ...If he isn't the man you want him to be he never will be. You can't go into a relationship hoping to change someone. Go out and find someone with no more issues than you got you wants the same things or some of the same thing s you want and work it out with that person. i don't know about anyone else but after about 3 weeks of no sex we would have serious problems ...
2007-03-01 04:38:42 · answer #1 · answered by Diva Dee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suspect that he may be poking someone else. You initiate sex and he tells you "we will do it another time?" How old are you two? You haven't sex in a year and a half and he's telling you another time?. That kissing and cuddling can get OLD quickly. Sweetheart, this man is not being honest. Forget the errand running, hanging out with family and friends....he either puts out this next free weekend or I would end it. I am suspicious of your man. You deserve a man who wants more than the cuddling, kissing.....besides he has poor memory........he may think you had sex two weeks ago and its been a year and a half......
2007-03-01 12:45:05 · answer #2 · answered by sunset 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, it sounds like he may not be interested anymore, I say get out, and find a man who remembers!
2007-03-01 12:33:27 · answer #3 · answered by Janine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋