we were still living together when we got the divorce, i'm still here really because i still love him. i just need some advice. Should i move out? I really don't make enough to be on my own.
2007-03-01 04:28:52 · 9 answers · asked by damagedone 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
is you still love him why dont you go see if he feels the same about you and if so then you can try to work your problems out but if he doesnt then move out.
2007-03-01 04:32:38 · answer #1 · answered by airplanes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the living situation and if he is using you, physically, emotionally. Are you doing his cooking and cleaning? Is he wanting sex? Is there really a definite ending to the relationship? And why can't you afford to move out? Only you can answer these questions.
If you can't move out because you can't afford to live like you are now, lower your standards for a short time, move into a rented place, etc. There are always ways, when you truly want out. Sometimes the emotional part of the relationship is the hardest part to divorce, so be sure you aren't tied to him. You will lose your life chasing a dream. No one will want you as long as you live with an ex...it creates a bad situation for you, and the next male in your life will not see you as an independent free woman.
Moving out is necessary in any divorce. Or why divorce? Think about it. Focus on the solution, not the problem. Get out and start your new life. It can be wonderful
2007-03-01 04:36:51 · answer #2 · answered by dutchlady 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should get separated and move on with your life. That's why you got divorced in the first place. Living together while you still love him is going to be too hard for you. You'll never be able to move on.
2007-03-01 04:33:33 · answer #3 · answered by Glennroid 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why did you agree to the divorce then? You need to move out. Did you include alimony in the settlement? You need to move on. I mean, oh my gosh, how can you do that to yourself. You need to have respect for yourself and get out of there. What are you going to do when he starts dating again? Pick yourself up and get out. It will be tough, but you will feel better in the long run.
2007-03-01 04:52:29 · answer #4 · answered by Aquaria 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i suggest you move out. why did you divorce in the 1st place
2007-03-01 04:35:03 · answer #5 · answered by DI@n@ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you still love him you should have never signed the divorce papers
2007-03-01 04:32:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So long as u r able to tolerate each other, it is ok.
2007-03-01 05:05:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
start trying to find a place you can afford. it will help you to get over him!
2007-03-01 04:33:09 · answer #8 · answered by Just call me Mo! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, get your own place!
2007-03-01 04:37:29 · answer #9 · answered by littlegoober75 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋