What would you do in a situation like this?...?

Question

I am happily engaged.We have been together for 2 years now.There has been a few problems wit his ex-gfs.The one he thought he loved cheated on him n ever since she found out that he is engaged to me,she tried gettin back wit him,she wouldnt leave him alone 4 a while but now she is out the picture.Then there is another ex that was supposedly preg,n when she found out we was datin,she told him that the baby was his.He says that there was no way,they had sex twice n both times,he used condoms and still pulled out.She is tellin me a completely diff story.On her myspace page,she never mentions that she is a mom or anything like that.She bothered us the first 2 weeks after she found out we was 2gether,Then aroun da time she was supp due,she bothered us again.We told her even though we dont belive there is any way he is the father we would pay 4 a paternity test,she refused.What do you all think?There is obviously much more to this story.What is all of your opinions?

Answer 1

Sounds like mind games to me. I once had a friend who would get pregnant every time she thought her man was about to dump her. Then lo an behold, she'd have a miscarriage, tho no one ever knew or witnessed but her and she never went to the hosp. The miscarriage was always about the same time of the month too, come to think of it....anyway, if the girl has actually had a baby, and she's named your man as the dad, get a court order for a paternity test, she won't have a choice. If it comes up again, real simple if she can't produce proof, actual medical proof with HER name on it showing that she's pregnant, just ignore her. She'll quit harassing you all once she realizes she's not getting the attention she wants.

Answer 2

well i glad ur happyly engaged don't let the ex-es get to u. and as far as the ex with the so called baby tell her the only way to prove he"s the father is with a dna test.and if u go through the DA'S office to have a paternity test u won't even have to pay for it unless he is the father.and i"m sure if he is the father he does want to know so he can do whats right for the child. but my guess is she is bluffing. good luck

Answer 3

sounds like games being played on you two. Waiting and see if she is really pregnant. Eventually her belly will tell the story. If she is you can get a court order for a paternity test....easily too. If she isn't pregnant then Gr8.

Then tell your boyfriend not to go around screwing all these girls and only you for if he does you two will break up. Set him straight! He needs to be responsible.

Good luck to you 2.

Answer 4

I think she is bluffing cause if it really was his she wouldnt care if you did a test. Infact she would be eager to prove that she is right if she was. I think she is jealous and is just trying to break the tow of you up and try to get him for herself. Plus probably trying to get child support.Dont let her get the best of you.Next time she comes and trys to pull that crap tell not to bother you anymore unless she has cold hard evedience.

Answer 5

try to evaluate your boyfriend... maybe he's doing some things behind your back. otherwise why would these exes still want something from him? its not just them wanting to spoil your relationship, they felt they still have a chance. ask yourself why. maybe because he's still seeing them without you knowing it. if you think you felt the same way for each other then no amount of bothering can rock your relationship.

Answer 6

Misery loves company. If she refused the test she is full of crap, it's not his. Try to move on....and by the way, why do you communicate with them on any level?
That;s the problem, dear.

Answer 7

nothing she is just want to bugg u ppl nothing else