2007-03-01 04:01:06 · 21 answers · asked by brandy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
why do u think its ur race maybe its u thats not comfortable in ur skin which is sad u should maybe speak to some one about this im curious now about ur race cause i just cant imagen no one not wanting to b friends with some one because of their race u should be proud of ur race u r just in the wrong place mate
2007-03-08 22:59:37 · answer #1 · answered by zagars07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What race is that? And where are you located?
Somehow I find it hard to believe that you are the only on of your race in your area. It can be hard but you can over come it with a great personality.... I was of mixed race when it was totally unheard of or uncool and somehow in the seventies, I became cool and the cats meow.... I suspect that you are not shining with your personality....and that your racial background is only the secondary problem. This is not a put-sown, just gives you a tremendous amount of hope and power on something that you can do something about and do have control over.
2007-03-09 07:46:37 · answer #2 · answered by Kimberlee Ann 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I don't think your race is the reason why people don't want to be friends with you. Usually people don't want to be friends with others because of their negative attitude or personality. But if you insist., I'm wondering.. are you in a predominantly white neighborhood and you are one of the few minorities? I would suggest joining a club or going on myspace/facebook and try meeting people of the same race as you.
2007-03-08 20:20:50 · answer #3 · answered by becka99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit being a racist! There are plenty of folks who would be your friend if you didn'y worry about race so much yourself. You make people uncomfortable with your own attitute about race relations. This is the 21st century. Get over the whole racism thing and go out and have a life!
2007-03-01 12:07:14 · answer #4 · answered by truckinmann 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If people won't be friends with you just because of your race then they arent worth it. You just need to keep your head up and know that someone out there is looking for a friend too.
2007-03-08 21:44:56 · answer #5 · answered by kkmommy2424 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you sure it's because of your race?? If that IS the case (which i really wouldn't expect)... you should just carry yourself with confidence and act like your skin ISN'T a different color. Looks are only skin deep, and if people are only willing to go that deep--- they aren't worth having as friends. One true friend would mean so much more to you than a bunch of fake ones
2007-03-08 22:27:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop focusing on your race, and focus on your attitude. Go out a meet people, go to places where you might meet someone that enjoys the same things as you, skating, bowling, athletic club, tennis court, park, etc. This will give you something to talk about and give someone the opportunity to meet the real you.
2007-03-08 13:58:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not even on the Internet? Not likely! Talking with people is a start. Knowing things that someone else needs to know is good too. Doing well in school or at work is a starting place too.
2007-03-09 06:50:12 · answer #8 · answered by Big Bruce 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure it's about your race? If it is, I recommend moving out of your area. Anyone who won't be your friend because of your skin color is not worth being a friend in the first place.
2007-03-01 12:05:32 · answer #9 · answered by good_old_hank 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I really don't think that its because of your race, maybe You have a chip on your sholder and people don't want to be around you because of your negitive attitude. Well even so, you have 1 friend, ME! Have a good day!
2007-03-01 12:06:13 · answer #10 · answered by anna s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋