2007-03-01 04:00:46 · 13 answers · asked by porths_83 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
What should happen is that the person who recognizes that fighting has become a negative force in the relationship should stop fighting and ask her partner to stop fighting too. Even if the partner attempts to continue fighting, the one should stop -- ultimately, it does take two people to have an argument.
2007-03-01 04:06:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only thing you have to consider here is if the good times outweigh the bad. if you close your eyes and think of that person does a bad moment come into play? or maybe a smile or hug, an overall good moment?
consider why you are in the relationship. is it because you love them each morning and every moment inbetween? or are you just 'used' to the relationship and staying out of habit and fear of new obstacles?
people will always argue. there is a great quote from my favorite show scrubs-
"relationships don't work like they do in TV or the movies; will they won't they? then they finally do and they're happy together forever, give me a break!
nine out of ten of them end because they weren't right for each other in the first place, and half of the ones who get married get divorced anyway...and i'm telling you right now that through all this stuff i haven't become a cynic- i really haven't.
yes, i do mainly believe that love is about pushing chocolate candies and you know, in some cultures a chicken...
you can call me a ******, i don't care, because i do- believe in love.
bottom line? the couples that are truely right for each other wade through the same crap as everybody else, but the big difference is they don't let it take them down!
one of those two people will stand up and fight for that relationship every single time, if they're right and they're real lucky.one of them will say something."
2007-03-01 04:18:46 · answer #2 · answered by brandylyn_kay 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u shd sit tog and discuss this with each other .try not to fight wen one of u tells abt the thgs because of which the other is affected negatively or better still both wrie wht u dont like the other person doing it may b small thgs or big thgs then exchange your papers and try talking things out.
most of the times we fight over insignificant things or mayb misunderstandings develop because of non communication.
dont think u will b able to solve this at one go u may fight before coming to an understanding pls b patient and willing to compromise both parties .
if this does not lead anywhere then u hv to accept that u shd stay seperately
gud luk
2007-03-01 04:18:06 · answer #3 · answered by ng2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No two persons in this world are similar in behaviour. Throw away false egoes. Be realistic , reconciliatory and not confrontationalist. If fight is unavoidable , be separated for one or two months. Both will realise other's value and importance. After that take oath on your religious book that yu both will avoid contriversies and confrontation. Both should decide to be soft spoken and less talkative only. Respect each other as u respect your parents. Forgive & forget yhe past. Be 100% honest & sincere for each other. Go together for sight seeing every fortnightly.
2007-03-01 21:32:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 04:06:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they luv each other its worth it to stay together.......ex. i fight with my bf bout things like kinda selfishly such as he's either workin or busy with friends...and i seem selfish but all i wanna do is see him i luv him that much that it hurts so when i do see him sometimes we fight a lil bout things...
which this might not be the types of fights ur talkin bout but everyone has them....it would be a weird relationship if u didnt./
2007-03-01 04:07:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's natural to get into some small arguments once in a while.
Don't sweat the small stuff. It's not important in the long run, and as far as relationships go, small arguments should not be stressed too much.
2007-03-01 04:06:07 · answer #7 · answered by Remi Hime 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you have said they both love each other then there is no point in parting away just for small causes , i would like to suggest give some time to each other by giving some space to live seperately
or dont interfere in each others matters, or by taking single vacation each of them this way they might get the air they were longing for !!
2007-03-01 04:12:11 · answer #8 · answered by antaryami001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
silly if you parted coz every marriage bond to hv fights. try not to burst out for nothing in the end both gain nil. for small matter dun fight try to resolve by tlk softly/nrmly. try to solve every arguement coz it will make you will feel sad and hate inside, the more negative it get, the more positive you thnk you cant live 2gether. try to thnk abt gd thing he do for you always.
2007-03-01 04:30:14 · answer #9 · answered by Al J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What happens when somebody asks a question and doesn't provide critical details like what they fight about, how they fight, etc?
The get meaningless answers.
2007-03-01 04:04:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋