I've asked questions about thsese people before. In India, there is a group of Holy Men called Nagababas. They were the ones that helped me to realize I was homosexual. I have sexual fantasies about them. Even though they are celibate. If I ever met one, he would not be interested in sex. Is it ok to still have my fantasy? Even though I realize it could never happen.
2007-03-01 03:59:26 · 19 answers · asked by Nagaraja 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Yes. Fantasys within yourself is just ok as long as you are not jeopardizing others.
2007-03-08 19:15:59 · answer #1 · answered by kibbs 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well isnt that what a fantasy is for go for it day dream away and while your at it stick some interesting other people in it just to spice it up. people often ask is this ok or is this normal and all i can say to you is we are all different and you are perfectly fine with yourself dont think you are wrong your not hurting anyone
2007-03-01 04:06:46 · answer #2 · answered by lady heather 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If I want to be celibate, why date someone? I can stay dateless like I am now. It's like having a cow and have no access to milk.
2007-03-08 11:43:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's ok to fantasize, but why even try to go after it, when you know in the end you'll just be shot down? At least in your fantasies, it can happen when you want, where you want, how you want
2007-03-01 04:07:24 · answer #4 · answered by Bekki 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
NO. I have seen many NAGABABAS in Kumbamelas and Gangasagar melas in West Bengal several times. I used to see host of people used to throng at them and do worship and all. But I was not there.
Also I have met many famous religious head like Shankaracharya, and others. Here also I did not have any attraction and I considered them as men like me.
It is not that I am an atheist. I also do not believe or have attraction towards the atheist politicians like Karunanidhi, Periyaar (They ar of Tamilnadu and I hope you are aware of them) etc.
2007-03-02 14:52:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
They are billions of people out there to replace them . Don't tempt or fantasize them,show some respects coz you might ruined their holy lives. Keep distance and be good.
2007-03-01 04:19:42 · answer #6 · answered by javo 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sigh.
Why do so many people confuse the state of CELIBACY (being unmarried) with CHASTENESS (refraining from sex)?
Until marriage rights are finally given to all US citizens, I suspect that many, many of us are attracted to someone who is celibate, i.e. UNMARRIED. They are usually our partners.
2007-03-01 04:47:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
well, I thought the priest was celibate but found out later he was not....Maybe the Nagababas have the same hidden issues.
2007-03-01 04:13:42 · answer #8 · answered by Brent W 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes I have and yes, anything goes in the realms of fantasy.
2007-03-01 04:09:16 · answer #9 · answered by unclefrunk 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes.. And she still is! 12 years later..
2007-03-08 22:39:07 · answer #10 · answered by BigWashSr 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋