no, thats normal. I feel the same way...but I know if I find the right girl at the right place then I should not worried about those things. Just don't pick up a girl at a bar or club. Church is probably the best place to find a girl that is faithful to you and herself.
2007-03-01 03:12:54
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answered by Anonymous
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I think how you are feeling is very common these days. I can understand. I had 2 failed marriages before I met the right woman and am now happily married and know what marriage is supposed to be like for the first time. The best advise I can give, from what I've learned is to take the time to really get to know someone before you jump into a commitment. You really need to see how a person acts when things don't go right, when you are sick and how he deals with problems. People don't think about these things when they are blindly in love. A mutual respect for each other as the individuals you are is very important. I think people just like the idea of being married but don't think about what living real life together will be like. Marriage takes commitment from both people and both need to be willing to give and take. Compromise is part of life when you are married. Marriage is merging two lives together into one. No one can have their way all the time. It is possible to be happy and have a successful marriage! When the two of you are a team it's the best! I wish you lots of luck. Take your time and don't compromise for less than what you really want out of life.
2007-03-01 12:24:16
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answered by vanhammer 7
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The reason why there is so many divorced couples is because people are getting married for all the wrong reasons (credit score,pregnancy, or just so they can move out of parents house for example)..If you marry for love then you should be OK..just make sure to pick the right time in the relationship to get married
2007-03-01 11:20:01
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answered by Bad Mood 5
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Don't rush into marriage then. Date, and go slowly. Date and date often and until you get good at it, and then pick somebody who is emotionally healthy, confident, has a good attitude and is flexible.
The idea (wish somebody had explained this to me when i was younger) is that you are in no hurry to get married, and you aren't going to settle for somebody just because they are there and happen to be attractive.
Everything you will ever be good at, you got good at by practicing, failing, learning from your failures, and then practicing some more.
So get out there: you need lots of practice if you're going to figure out how to attract and keep a good one.
2007-03-01 11:32:01
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answered by Anonymous
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Many people aren't getting married anymore. It is more common now adays and being more accepted by people. I would never get married again. Why do you need a paper to say you love someone and are committed to them?
2007-03-01 11:54:06
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answered by beaches 2
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Try not to focus on what's happening to the majority of people. Focus on yourself. If you have a difficult time focusing on your personal life, then yes you probaly have an underlying fear of marriage.
2007-03-01 11:16:01
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answered by Sue G 2
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alot of ppl dont work on their marriage work on ur marriage, spend time together, be loyal and it should work.
2007-03-01 11:11:34
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answered by Anonymous
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stick with casual sex. Marriage you should only be really really sure about
2007-03-01 11:12:16
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answered by Anonymous
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