my boyfriend works as an analyst which means very crazy hours. he gets to work around 8:30 and on average gets home at 9. some times he doesnt get home until after midnight. he has only been there for 2 months, but last night he kinda had a break down and asked if its all worth the money. his bosses are not nice and will yell at hime if something doesnt go their way. what can i go to make his life a little easier? i want to support him and back him in whatever he wants to do, but we are living on his income because im trying to finish up school. does anyone have any ideas?
2007-03-01 03:04:14 · 6 answers · asked by bar22bie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
ask him to get another job.. you wouldnt want your bf to get depression yea.. or you can take up part time if he found a lower pay job.. al the best yea..
2007-03-01 03:10:28 · answer #1 · answered by smiles-I v a 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you really want to be supportive of him then take some of the burden off of him. He is the only one bringing in an income and the job he has is basicly killing him. You should offer to atleast get a part time job in order to help. I understand that you are going to school and at some point you will be bringing in a pretty good salary. Until your ship comes in, you should try to bring in some type of income to relieve the burden on your man. Thank you and good luck.
2007-03-01 03:13:45 · answer #2 · answered by cookie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I reckon you should help him look for another job and fast. No job is worth being miserable for no matter how much money they are paying. Money cant buy love so best be skint for a bit and less stressed then have loads of money and a miserable boyfriend. If he wont leave then try making the time he is off special for the two of you, do nice things together and go nice places then at least this will help to take his mind off of work. Give him massages and tell him how much you appreciate him working so hard!
2007-03-01 03:10:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tough situation. It's only been two months, so he has to work hard to prove himself. However, it shouldn't ruin his personal life.
Tell him what you told us- you support him, you love him, you want to help.
Help him write a resume, or make sure it's current. Set a time goal - 3 months, 6 months. If it's not better by then, he can send out resumes to other employers. That will give him something to look forward to. He may feel better if he knows it won't be like this forever.
In the mean time, give him back rubs, make his favorite dinner and have it ready for him when he gets home. Let him know you're there for him.
2007-03-01 03:11:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You need to be a rock for him. A pillar of support. No matter what he does, assure him that you'll be there for him -- and mean it when you say it. Give him your honest opinions (when he asks you what you think), but reassure him that no matter what decision he makes, you will be behind him 100%.
2007-03-01 03:13:11 · answer #5 · answered by Remi Hime 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The greatest stress reliever of all ... But he may be too tired to take advantage of it. So give him oral, no matter how tired he is, it will relieve all his stress. Good Luck
2007-03-01 03:09:29 · answer #6 · answered by snvffy 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋