I posted about the bio not permitting me to have contact with my son during his visitation. The order we all agreed upon states that the child is to contact me at lease once per day and that he has a phone and can contact the mother whenever he wants. We asked the bio to have the child call around 7pm. The child has never called us, the bio doesn't ans his phone and the child's phone gets taken away from him.
We were going to progress from single overnights to full weekends this weekend... The child's therapist has tried to set-up a meeting w/the bio to discuss this issue but the bio has not been cooperative - that was over a month ago.
My attorney no longer practices, she just informed me, so I just sent a letter to his attorney myself - stating that he is in violation of the order and until this serious issue is resolved I am going to postpone the visitation...
What do you think his attorney will do?
2007-03-01 02:57:18 · 4 answers · asked by Bluesky 1 in Politics & Government ➔ Law & Ethics
My child has expressed to me he doesn't feel like he is allowed to contact me when he is with him. The Guardian and the child's therapist want the child to contact me at least once per day. They feel it is important for his emotional well-being - why isn't the bio-father doing what the experts feel is best?
Yup, you guessed it, just to spite me...His wanting control is more important to him than what is best for the child and I am not going to stand around and let him put my child in a compromissing position.
2007-03-01 03:34:07 · update #1
I'm willing to bet that the attorney will do nothing. He/she will notify the bio that they need to be in compliance, but I doubt that will bring about any changes.
Get a new attorney, it sounds like your going to need one.
2007-03-01 03:04:34 · answer #1 · answered by My world 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel that if a biological parent has been granted visitation and they provide a loving and safe environment then those visits should go uninterupted as much as possible. When my ex and I divorced I was granted custody and she had visitation. When they went to visit her I felt I should give them the space they need. If your child wants to call you then perhaps that should be allowed but I do not feel you should be calling your child during visits with the "bio". Your calling will most likely be seen as an intrusion and unfortunately an overall negative impact on the child. I feel parents should focus on what is best for the child. If a strong relationship with the childs "bio" is important than that relationship should be allowed to grow without interuption.
2007-03-01 11:27:17 · answer #2 · answered by redflite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should obtain the services of a new attorney who specializes in "family" law. The old saying about "one who represents himself...is represented by a fool" could certainly hold true without having the legal credentials!
The attorney COULD file a motion of contempt against you should YOU fail to comply with the orders of the court.
Your new attorney will be able to handle the contempt issue with the other party and have the problem rectified!
Best wishes!
2007-03-01 11:05:01 · answer #3 · answered by KC V ™ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hard to tell unless you clarify what the term "bio" means.
2007-03-01 11:01:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋