My b/f keeps staring at other girls...even his brother's wife who is like early 40's... and her daughters (his brother's step-daughters) he does it with my sister and my best friend also...he says that he don't know why he does it ...my b/f is 21 years like myself. I just cannot deal with it. It's a feeling that i can't control..i feel anger and hopelessness. I broke up with him because of this....what do u think????...HELP!!
2007-03-01 02:53:42 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I think if you were secure in your relationship you would know that all men look at other women. It does not mean they do not love you, it just means they are men and they like to look. I'm sure you look at nice looking men as well. It is perfectly normal and you should not raise such a stink about it.
Best of luck.
2007-03-01 02:58:21 · answer #1 · answered by Starla_C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is something you or anyboby else can't stop, he's a boy, boys do this sometimes to see if they will get a response and some do it for no reason at all.I wish I could tell you thet they can't help them self but that would not be true, because they can they just choose to do it because they feel it is harmless which it really is, I wish you hadn't broken up with him cause you could encourage him to do the right thing. What you do in the next relationship, if it happens is insist that he shows you some respect, if he doesn't, don't get mad,get even, DO THE SAME THING he won't be able to stand it ,but you got to have a heart of steel to be up for this cause at first he will recognize that you are ignoring him and that you are not upset and decide to do it even more, and you have to remain strong or else it won't work. Remember this is not a tit for tat game ,you only do this if after you have spoken to him about mutual respect and he still does it. Now if that doesn't work, to me that means he will never respect you as he shuold and didn't mean you any real good. Good luck.
2007-03-01 11:16:54 · answer #2 · answered by BOBINE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has wandering eyes for every female then there is a problem.
He is being lustful and thinking about what could transpire between him and his target....
You are well rid of this kind of man, it will only bring you heartbreak.
If a man is not sensitive to his woman and ignores her when other woman are around , you can bet that when you aren't around he is sniffin out the other goods if you know what I mean.
You deserve to have an equal partner, who will respect and treat you with dignity and love.
You will not be sorry. Seeing this now is like a gift to you. You now know what kind of man he is, you now know he has wandering eyes, you now know what might have happened in a committed relationship with him.
Some guys think with the appendage between their legs and any bit*h can lead them astray.
Be happy you didn't make a huge mistake here and you are free to pursue something much better in your life.
It really was a gift to you, to see this now and not later.....when you have invested too much time....
2007-03-01 11:04:32 · answer #3 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is normal for some guys to stare at other girls that way... but on the other hand if your boyfriend truly loves you and accepts you for the way you are he should not be doing this... I notice this problem happens alot often in relationships... if I were you I would talk to him and explain to him how you feel toward the situation and maybe it will get beter.....
2007-03-01 10:58:43 · answer #4 · answered by Joseph H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should leave him if he is looking at other girls that means he isn't very interested in you . . .you deserve someone better . . .I hope this helps!
2007-03-01 11:02:40 · answer #5 · answered by sam_roxmysox 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
CAUSE YOUR CRAZY!
2007-03-01 10:57:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋