my girl friend want to leave me.I donot want to leave.she is my life ican't leave without her.I want to marry but she refuse it .Iam christan & she belog to Hindu Family. But I love Her.I want her in my life back.She say I am your good friend.and do not give u a tension.plz help me or call me my mobile:9351332194
2007-03-01 02:40:10 · 18 answers · asked by Binoy G 1 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Music
whoa dude dont ever give your cell number first of all, second, you need to give her space, if she doesnt wanna be with you, you guys will be unhappy and what kind of life will that be? think about it.
2007-03-01 02:43:16 · answer #1 · answered by ♪♪Holly♪♪ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're obviously upset with her religious choice or you would not have mentioned it here. You mention it as if it has something to do with her leaving you. Start there and maybe you can figure this out. If she wants to go her own way, then it's only because she does NOT love you in the same way you love her. So all you can do is let her go and let her be happy. Thats the only way you'll truely be happy. Sure you 2 could stay together, but when love is only one-sided then neither side is ever truely happy and that's unfair to you both. Love is either 2way or no way but never one-way. Because one-way does not work in matters of the heart. She can't help not being in love with you no more than you can help being in love with her. Give her some slack. Give yourself some slack. Give her some space. Give yourself some space. You WILL find ANOTHER who WILL be RIGHT FOR YOU! I promise! :-)
2007-03-01 02:51:00 · answer #2 · answered by Army Of Machines (Wi-Semper-Fi)! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is going to be a hard pill to swallow--and please understand I don't intend to be mean or hurtfull--but you can't make someone want to be with you if they don't. Ask yourself this: If you had a choice of getting your girlfriend to stay with you... but you always had to worry about whether or not she'd STAY with you... as opposed to letting her go and finding someone who WANTS to be with you... which would you choose? Relationships shouldn't be high-maintenance. Actually, they should do most of the working FOR you, not ON you. Trust me: I'm a very happilly married man--but it took several painful relationships before I earned the right to relax. This whole process is rough, and I feel for you... but in time, you'll see how and maybe even why it needed to happen this way, and be free to give that much more into a rewarding relationship. I know it's all easy to say and that you're probably already moving on to the next post, writing me off as being full of advice you don't want... but if you are still reading? I'd simply like to let you know that life has quite the mysterious way of turning around on you and showing you her good side. Just hang in there.
2007-03-01 02:50:19 · answer #3 · answered by writersblock73 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax! You got lots to think through.
Firstly, she had her reasons for leaving you. It had nothing to do with religion. If she really loves u for what u are she wont care abt the religion factor.
Secondly, when two person are in love they got to feel the CHEMISTRY being them. Meaning getting excited whenever he or she sees each other and others can tell. Without CHEMISTRY what's the purpose of being together? You will not feel great being together, you two will probably ended up having a fake relationship. Eg. Putting up a show for your friends like as if you two are a great couple but actually-NO. Really because people can tell.
Thirdly, at least she wants you be her friend. If you cant be a couple--a friend is better than nothing!
What do you think?
2007-03-01 02:58:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably is leaving you because you can't spell and you are dumb enough to give out your phone number to total strangers on the internet. Try finding another girl and don't mention the fact that you have the IQ of an apple.
2007-03-01 02:57:31 · answer #5 · answered by Ryan G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why r u upset,religion r not a matter,I think,may be other problem. U have to find out which reason she want to leave U,discuss with her in detail,then it will be solve easily.
2007-03-01 05:32:06 · answer #6 · answered by simple 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her go. The more you plead with her, the more she will distance herself. Just act like it is no big deal and then maybe she will change her mind. It works sometimes.
2007-03-01 02:45:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to cut her loose if she doesn't want to be in the relationship anymore. Trust me, you will find someone that is just right for you! You might not feel that now, but it is true!
2007-03-01 02:44:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all..you're an idiot for giving out your phone #.Second..let the girl leave...why would you want to be with someone that doesn't want to be with you?
2007-03-01 02:50:46 · answer #9 · answered by Courtney L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy her flowers or jewelry, maybe she's been feeling neglected. If she is just over you then you are definitely better off waiting for someone else to come into your life.
2007-03-01 02:44:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋