I know he loves me and i love him but lately it seems like he has no tme for me. He goes to school and has lots of homework and he also has a job where he works quite a bit as well. Where does that leave me? What should i do?
2007-03-01 02:28:27 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
When i do tell him how i feel he tells me that i either stick with him for the long run (through the thick and thin) or leave if i'm unhappy.
2007-03-01 03:14:32 · update #1
Be PROUD he's working and working on his schoolwork.
My fiance went to college and he was busy with that most of the time and then work as well, that was about a year ago.
Don't bug him when he's busy with work and school. Do something while he is busy.
Plan a date on a weekend to do some couple time.
2007-03-01 02:39:51 · answer #1 · answered by Terri 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have that same issue. i've been with my boyfriend for 3 years and he works and on top of that plays baseball all the time. what I do is tell him that i miss spending time with him...not in a naging sort of way but just letting him know that we have not spent much time together. And if that doesnt work I make myslef busy...if you seem busy then he will notice that you are not just waiting there for him when ever its convenient and then he himself will try to make speacial time for you. You can also try and set speacial days that are just you and him days. Maybe he doesnt work on tuesday nights so make tuesday night you and him nights. I know its sucks...but just hang in there. Good luck!
2007-03-01 10:37:05 · answer #2 · answered by Lauren 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
be happy that he is actually trying to make something of himself and prepare for his future, what he is doing now will be beneficial to him in the long run, you can write him letters, call him and just be supportive for him, his schooling will not last forever and you should be there for him through this time because he is probably aware of the issue of no time as well but his education has to come first as his girlfriend just let him know that you are understanding about it and everything will get back to normal in time...
2007-03-03 12:11:17 · answer #3 · answered by MidnightSkies 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop Complaining and be proud you have a guy that isn't scared to work hard and try to make something out of his life... make more of an effort... Cook him meals, meet up with him, Write him a letter telling him your proud of how hard he's working ect.
2007-03-01 10:33:16 · answer #4 · answered by Coach White 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if he is really busy you should understand but if he tries not to be with you and spend time with you, you should tell him.
2007-03-01 10:32:54 · answer #5 · answered by only me 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋