2007-03-01 02:10:14 · 18 answers · asked by meme 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Court orders are explicit. If he does not follow it take him back to court, and the judge will order him to follow the court order. If he is in contempt he will cool his heels in county jail.
2007-03-01 02:14:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like my ex, first off if he is giving you that much of a problem you may want to seek some legal advice. However my daughters father is the same way. It truly is mind games, don't say anything don't fight just do it for the time being. Then it doesnt' look like you are not complying or looking out for the best intrest of your child. If that is the only indifferance you both have then consider yourself lucky. Is it a pain in the A$$ of course but there could be worse situations out there. So, bite your tongue and meet him. If there other things besides this and this is the icing that tops the cake definatly talk to a lawyer.
2007-03-01 02:17:51 · answer #2 · answered by pattiof 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the interest of you daughter, meet him half way THIS time. However, when you get home, call your lawyer and review your custody/visitation papers. If it doesn't say you have to meet him half way and you don't want to do it, then he is waiving his right to visitation. HOWEVER....if you are the one who moved far enough away that it is a problem for drop off and pick up....then just do it. It isn't his problem that you decided to move 2 hours away(or whatever the case is). Either way, if you fear he will keep her, talk to your lawyer. This is a credible threat and has happened many times before. Most child abductions in the US are a result of a non custodial parent taking their child. A court can suspend visitation until the issue is resolved if they feel the child is in danger.
2007-03-01 02:22:33 · answer #3 · answered by ldlivengood 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Meet him half way for drop off, and then check your court papers and see what they say about visitations and transportation. If the papers say he needs to drive her all the way back to you, then he is in contempt. Sometimes, you need to come up with your own solutions for the sake of your child. Give a little, especially if it is a real long drive. If he is a dead beat and just being lazy, thats another story, but not knowing the details, it is hard to tell.
Remember though, your daughter comes first, but I dont need to tell you that. Good luck
2007-03-03 01:53:00 · answer #4 · answered by Mx2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the visits are court appointed you can find out if that was part of the deal. Usually a parent will just bring the child home and it's not a big deal. If you are concerned that he will keep her if you don't meet him half way then I would check with some legal council of what you're rights are. Many places have free legal services and they could help you. Good luck
2007-03-01 02:27:57 · answer #5 · answered by happyfingers1@verizon.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First do you have a court order saying that you have custody and that he getts her for so many days and times? If so if he kkeps her from you when you go to pick her up you can go to the police station and they will handle it for you. You could also call the police on him for kidnapping. I have a six year old daughter and me and her dad are no longer together and he pulled this crap all the time. If you do not have a court order form either a judge in your local court or the attorney general then he does not have to give her back, because he still have full custody of her as well as yourself. I would advise you to get a court order if you do not have one. If you hire a attorney to get you to court with him then it will cost around $3500, and if you go through the attorney generals office it will not coast you a dime but will take a lot longer.
Cristy
2007-03-01 02:19:04 · answer #6 · answered by justingary@sbcglobal.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
perhaps she's no longer forgetting. perhaps she's pondering attempting certainly parenting and not drugging your toddler. be conscious: I certainly have an older stepbrother who's completely ideas broken merely from 3 months of ADHD drugs. do you recognize how difficult that's to attempt and communicate over with somebody who's constantly stomping their feet, guffawing, has to stay in an person domicile of their 20's, and additionally you may't comprehend them.... all on a similar time as understanding that they have got been certainly completely regular previously they incredibly much died from a toxin overdose from prescription medications? I certainly have not yet met a individual who have been on ADHD prescription medications for extra effective than a 12 months which will no longer be able to handle being interior the sunlight without a migraine. there is extra to contemplate than what some jackass in a healthful tells you.
2016-12-18 12:56:42 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is the reason he needs you to meet him? Is it that you do not want to meet him half way just because? Is it a good reason and worth the drama this is going to start. Think of your kid, try and make like as easy as possible for you and your child. It would take less time to meet him half way then run back and forth to court.
2007-03-01 02:16:04 · answer #8 · answered by Kat G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For your child's sake I would go and meet him half way. If you have a problem with transportation, maybe you could compromise for the next visit like offering to pay for the gas.
2007-03-01 02:17:29 · answer #9 · answered by freakychicky34 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would you drive half way for your daughter??? You are not driving half way for ex, but you are driving half way to give your daughter a relationship with her father. Meet him half way because it is the right thing to do...
2007-03-01 02:18:21 · answer #10 · answered by A friend of Bill W 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First who has custody? you or him? If it is you, my first question is why can't you meet him halfway? Otherwise if you do have custody and he refuses to bring her back you can charge him with kidnapping, but honestly why can't you meet him halfway? If you don't have custody and you are the one with visitation and he is offering to bring her halfway, then meet him or lose you visitation, because he is being generous by meeting you half way. You could have to drive the whole way there and back otherwise.
2007-03-01 02:16:21 · answer #11 · answered by HappyGoLucky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋