i need some help i thank am bi i get turn on by girls but dont know how to tell bf we been together for 7 yrs now am scared
2007-03-01 02:05:09 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Well bring your hottest girlfriend to my house and we'll find out.
2007-03-01 02:07:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well first of a 7 year relationship should by now be a very open. So I dont know why youd be scared. I knew I was bi because I would fall asleep thinking sexually about other women. Then a opportunity came up and I took it. The experience was everything I dreamt of. Thats how I knew. I was married also when I was curious of the same sex. My husband was completely understanding and wanted me to be satisfid in every way. So I have a close friend that I hook up with and He doesnt complain at all about the show. Wink-wink
2007-03-01 10:41:50 · answer #2 · answered by jdnsmama1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well my husband knew from the beginning that i was bi and he had no problem with it, he found it a turn on but some guys are different some guys don't like it. My ex found out i was bi and hated the fact because he was cheated on by his ex with another girl and left him for her but most men like it...
You can't really ask people if you might be bi only YOU will know and if you think you are bi then you probably are..
I grew very attracted to woman around the age of 14-15 but it wasn't until I had a sexual relation with a woman that i knew i was surrely bi, only because i really like doing things with them, and i would catch myself thinking about random wman and getting turned on, even dreaming about them:)..
If you are don't be afraid to let it out...
2007-03-01 11:29:04 · answer #3 · answered by Kasja 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you drunk when you find yourself wanting to kiss girls? I've met a lot of straight girls like that. You put a little liquor in them and all the sudden they want to make out. If you tell your boyfriend I imagine he'll be very excited to offer you the possibility of a threesome...but beware, these things are almost always more problems than they are fun.
I decided quite a while ago that fooling around with a girl is an equal betrayal as if it would have been with a guy. It doesn't matter...intimacy is intimacy.
Good luck
2007-03-01 10:11:46 · answer #4 · answered by the beet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You get turned on by girls and you've got a boyfriend, you're bi.
Question is how do you deal with it? You've been with him for seven years - smacks of commitment to me. That can still continue, after all you must see the occasional hot guy (not your bf) who turns you on as well, no? Doesn't mean you're going to jump into bed with him.
As for telling your bf: "Honey, not that I'd cheat on you but I've got something to tell you, I'm bi"
2007-03-01 10:58:01 · answer #5 · answered by unclefrunk 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him...he is a guy he will probably want to have a three some or something along those lines...I really don't think he will mind as long as you ARE Bi and your not going to leave him for a girl...Good luck!
2007-03-01 10:07:50 · answer #6 · answered by ~Jama~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because you are turned on by females does not mean you are a Homosexual. although I am sure you will be told otherwise by people here, take a long hard look at yourself and you will know the truth.
2007-03-01 10:10:53 · answer #7 · answered by ALEIII 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way to know is to experiment.
I know for a fact that if my gf were to bring a question like this up, I would be hella turned on and want her to bring a friend :)
2007-03-01 10:09:09 · answer #8 · answered by Brian H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just because girls turn you on does not make you BI
2007-03-01 10:08:02 · answer #9 · answered by Always PO'd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think it should be a problem. you like guys right, but your not going to go out with another guy. i had a girlfriend once, and i'm with a guy now, he thinks it's hot that i like women and i dont get jealous if he checks someone out. even though i have liked women, i am only interested in him, and he is happy. tell him that you love him, and tell him that you like women too but he's all you want.
2007-03-01 10:09:06 · answer #10 · answered by purple_butterflyuk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am bi. I like to let men and women look at my Big Fake Boobs!
2007-03-01 10:08:56 · answer #11 · answered by wannaseemyfake ( . ) ( . ) s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋