If you prapose to a girl she denies you and dumps u then three weeks she returns and ask u too marry her what would u do?
2007-03-01 01:55:44 · 29 answers · asked by M V 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You two don't sound like you are on the same page here....I'd find another book!!!
2007-03-01 01:59:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
hmmm First thing that would run through my mind would be does she really feel the same way i do? Secondly she left not wanting anything to do with you for 3 weeks before she comes back with a changed mind? I'm a women and I wouldn't take her back as my bride-to-be. I would let her know that she rejected a very serious matter definitely get her side of the story but I would wait probably another year to ensure she wants to be with you for the rest of her life. She doesn't seem to know what she wants to do and she's probably scared too. Seems like this relationship needs time that will allow both of you to see if this is the path you want.
2007-03-01 10:10:18 · answer #2 · answered by ilisalec 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make her sweat it out and wait a while to see what her true motivations are. If it's for real then time isn't an issue.
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2007-03-01 10:00:49 · answer #3 · answered by symbo61 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have a big long talk with her, does she really want you, or does she just want somebody. Marriage should be a lifelong commitment, not just some spur of the moment decision. It is something you should take very seriously. You might think about some couples counseling before you make the big decision. That way you can be sure that you two are right for each other.
2007-03-01 10:03:36 · answer #4 · answered by mingcrew 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ask her what changed her mind..She could of had cold feet and got scared when you asked and thought the only answer was to run so she wouldn't get hurt..She may have needed that time space to work things out in her mind..If you still want her and want to marry her then take your time and see where it leads you both.. I wouldn't rush into marriage right away..
I would also talk to her and say that when she gets scared that she can talk to you about it instead of running away..Good Luck
2007-03-01 10:04:29 · answer #5 · answered by charmed4412 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ask her why the change of heart and mind and why did she refuse you before and now all of a sudden is proposing to you. Actually this is a good thing BUT i would wonder why if it were me as well. Good luck to you. She must really love and care about you though if after she turned you down flat she now comes back and wants to marry you and is recanting on her rejection before.
2007-03-01 10:01:59 · answer #6 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
All depends on how you feel about her. Since you proposed to her I assume you really love her. So I say take her back and make it work. You probably caught her off guard and scared her. Have a nice talk with her and have fun planning your life together. Good luck
2007-03-01 10:01:55 · answer #7 · answered by babygirl68132 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would wait, for a year or more to make sure this girl is the right one....you dont what her doing that while married with children.
You would be up the creek.
This could be a warning sign.
2007-03-01 10:06:50 · answer #8 · answered by Grogan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I dont know the details of your situation but I suspect that she got scared and after she left she missed you. I would take her back but take it slow talk to her. Tell your concerns ask her why she did what she did. If you want to get married your going to have to communicate. Good luck to you
2007-03-01 10:06:26 · answer #9 · answered by cee_jae22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell her that she had her chance of marriage with you three weeks ago. If she really wanted you as her husband she would have accepted your proposal or told you that she had needed some time to think about it instead of saying no. It was her loss.
2007-03-01 10:34:33 · answer #10 · answered by bigred 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run as far and fast as you can! If you keep doing the same action over and over hoping for a different result - Insanity! From our friend Bill!
good luck & blessing
2007-03-01 09:59:30 · answer #11 · answered by Wood Smoke ~ Free2Bme! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋