When you got married, did you cry? and how about, if your child was to be married, did you cry also?
When I was at the altar, I cried. That was the wonderful day in my life. I finally get to marry the love of my life. and btw, my wife wants kids and I don't want to have kids. Can anyone explain to my wife that I don't want kids? or what can i do about the situation?
2007-03-01 01:51:59 · 10 answers · asked by Xian C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The woman of your dreams...and now you don't agree with each other on kids????
Must have been a really short dream!
2007-03-01 01:55:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, i did not cry. I actually had a small case of the giggles. I dont do well when I'm the center of the attention, and often laugh when I am. So, I laughed instead of cried. Could barely spit my vows out. But i did it. And yes, I will probably cry when my children get married. Hell, I cried at their kindergarten graduation..lol! As far as the kids thing goes. are you recently married? If so, give it time, dont rush into it. You may change your mind someday. I was pregnant when i got married and not that I would change my kids for the world, but if i had it to do over, I would have waited about 5 years of being married first to have children. My husband and I have never known what its like to just get up and go do something on a whim, cuz we feel like it. There was always babysitters to find, diaper bags to pack, extra bottles to make, etc. They are older now, so no more diapers or bottles, but still sitters to find. enjoy each other first, and the urge to have children may come later, if not, and your wife still wants kids, that could pose a serious problem in your marriage after awhile. You shoudl have discussed kids PRIOR to getting married to make sure you were both on the same page. Good luck with all that.
2007-03-01 02:07:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, when I got married, I didn't cry, which is unusual, because I'm a very emotional person. Didn't your wife & you talk long before you were engaged, about how you both felt when it came to the subject of having a family? Usually, that subject will pop up when two people are planning a life together.
2007-03-01 02:08:33 · answer #3 · answered by Shortstuff13 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes I cried when my dad did his speech as he cried and that is not like him
will I cry when my kids get married oh yes
you should have discussed the issue of kids before getting married and marriage is about compromise and if she wants kids badly enough then it is like a pain inside and you may have to concede
2007-03-01 01:57:31 · answer #4 · answered by boo 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you want kids??? That is the big question?? My kids are my husband and my whole life, our lives would not be complete with out them.
I cried on my wedding day, and I cried when our children were born. They were the best days of my life.
Every time I look at my husband and our beautiful children, I thank God for the incredible gifts he has given me, and enjoy every minute of it.
2007-03-01 02:11:56 · answer #5 · answered by mingcrew 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I did not cry at my own wedding - but did cry when my daughter got married.
You should have told your now wife BEFORE the marriage that you don't want kids....now it actually consitutes FRAUD and could be grounds for annulment should she so choose...did you know that?
Whatever your reasons, you need to sit down and have a talk with your wife honestly and sincerely YOURSELF...no one ELSE can do that or should do that but YOU
2007-03-01 02:16:31 · answer #6 · answered by sage seeker 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the issue on wether or not to have kids is amajor issue and should have been discussed before marriage,as it is one of the thinge the couple should be in agreement on before hand,my wife and I discussed this before we married and agreed not to have kids,you could tell her you do not feel financially stable enough to have kids,or you dont't think you are ready for parenthood as you still have some growing to todo before you become a parent. and yes I did tear up at my wedding ,when we were lighting our unity candle.
2007-03-01 02:01:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes because I new I was making a big mistake.
2007-03-01 03:28:14 · answer #8 · answered by whymewhynow 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its a woman thing i say have kids if ur finatually stable
2007-03-01 02:00:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
yes i cried....and everyday after....cause i knew i was making a mistake........good luck
2007-03-01 02:06:29 · answer #10 · answered by LIBERIAN MAN 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋