I would just like to know you far all of you would go? And why?
2007-03-01 01:47:50 · 20 answers · asked by (",) JJ (,") 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Not far usually. But I've only dated girls and so it's not very hard for me to hold myself back;p
Now with a *guy*, I dunno. I'm so freakin anxious to get with a guy and try out the sex stuff that I'd probably go pretty far. Hell, I don't know that I'd let him out of the car.
2007-03-01 04:16:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have always maintained a policy of no kissing on the first date.
I do this to keep the girl comfortable in case she's not really feeling it, and I tell her directly.
This opens the door a little better on the second date, because I pretty much know that if she wants a second date, she wants a kiss. Yeah, sometimes you have to resist and miss out on that passionate beginning, but, I feel like it's better to show restraint.
Of course, there have been a couple occasions where I was unable to keep to my rule, but, I try not to go very far on the first date.
2007-03-01 01:56:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what happend on the date, and who I'm with. bla bla bla
In my younger years, I would try to hold off but due to hormones and alcohol, and the right moment and person and the right opportunity, I would take it! I like sex, and if it feels good, go with it! Now that I am older and wiser, I enjoy the tension building up and the teasing, and the curiosity part of it all. Describe to me what your wearing underthere, don't show me! I don't drink on dates anymore, I found out that I get hot and frisky when I do, which can ruin a good thing!
2007-03-01 02:36:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I'm looking for casual sex, I'll of course, go all the way. If I'm dating, just a innocent kiss.
I don't do casual sex, so if it's someone I'm dating with intention of it becoming something more, a kiss is all we're both getting! Mostly because there's no need to rush something sweet, and sex should be a big, important deal in a relationship, something you prime and prepare for.
Hope that helps.
2007-03-01 08:00:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First date is a "get to know you" meeting. You only go all the way if it is not a date and is a one night stand
2007-03-01 02:04:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would make a move to show my interest usually its the second date for me then its full blown whatever happens right on. but i have had f buddies and those were definatly first daters i will say that i dont play with my life cause of all the things u can catch so i do it safe and get checked but im in a relationship right now so im not worried about it lol anyway why do you ask?
2007-03-01 04:03:59 · answer #6 · answered by lady heather 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I admit - there are some first dates I have had sex, there are some first dates when the guy didn't even get a kiss....there was one first date that lasted 16 years and he is my husband!!
2007-03-01 05:07:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
In times past, as far as they would let me - "life is for living now" was my motto.
These days, though, I'm much more reserved and I appreciate the tension of a slow build to something that, ultimately, has more meaning.
2007-03-01 01:57:04 · answer #8 · answered by unclefrunk 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sounds hedonistic (I guess because it is), but I'd go as far as I could. Who knows if you'll ever have a second chance?! Life is too short and uncertain to play dating games. My motto is: Life is uncertain, eat dessert first.
2007-03-01 02:44:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depneds what led up to the first date. In general, when I was single I was in my early 20's, and I was so horney all the time that I totally would go all the way. But it wasn't always smart.
2007-03-01 01:54:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋