How do I marry my girlfriend? like what do I need to do 1st? My girlfriend wants to get married. She told me "Let's get married." I feel the same way. Do I talk to her parents 1st? What exactly do I tell her parents? Do i tell this this? "I've been with your daughter for 7 years now. I'm seriously in love with your daughter and I wouldn't want to cheat on her. I would stay loyal and faithful and will take care of her for the rest of my life. she means so much to me. Can I marry your daughter?". even if the parents does accept, how do I propose to her? Any ideas on the proposing idea?
2007-03-01 01:42:18 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Do not get married
2007-03-01 01:45:04 · answer #1 · answered by dcam47 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
First, speak to her father in private and tell him that you love his daughter and you want his permission for her hand in marriage. You dont need to make all kinds of promises or anything, that is between you and her. When he gives the ok tell him to keep it private between you and he. Then go ring shopping and pick one out that you know that she will love. My advise for the proposal is something simple but memorable. Like a special place that you have together or the ocean or somewhere beautiful.Don't forget to get down on one knee. Good luck for a happy life together.
2007-03-01 09:50:22 · answer #2 · answered by mom of twins 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you want to ask her parents for their blessing then thats a very sweet idea!! just ask your gf to marry you. then you start planning the wedding.
for the proposal, just take her to a nice resturant. maybe order desert and have the wait staff write will you marry me? on the desert plate with chocolate or something like that. if there is a fun activity you both enjoy doing together then you could ask her then . for ex: your at the beach walking a long and you ask her (you could pretend like you see something in the sand, bend down, then when you stand back up have the ring ready ..awww...) or your on a bike ride in the mountains and you stop at a certain point and ask her. good luck and congrats if she says yes!!
2007-03-01 09:49:08 · answer #3 · answered by Awesome Rockin Mom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it's sounds like she's already done the purposing, but take her out to a romantic dinner, and when she least expects it, in front of everyone get down on one knee, break out the ring, and tell her she means everything to you and you should have asked long ago because she's the love of your life! GO BIG!!! She deserves it she's waited seven years! As for her parents, it's very respectful to ask, and you'll immediately score "son-in-law points" for it! Yes ask for their blessing, but I would leave out the cheat on her part, but all the rest sounded great! Good luck in your endeavor and your new life!
2007-03-01 09:52:00 · answer #4 · answered by Green eyed girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are confused about how to go about marring her then it sounds like you are not positively sure that you really want to get married in the first place. And if you do want to get married to her and if the two of you are both consenting adults you shouldn't need her parents approval anyway.
Good Luck!
2007-03-01 11:13:47 · answer #5 · answered by bigred 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depending on your age.....
Both of you should go to the folks, as a couple, and tell them that you want to get married.
On the proposal, you get down on your knee and say "will you marry me?" pretty simple actually.
2007-03-01 09:46:53 · answer #6 · answered by Dan821 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my buddy had a friend who was a cop, they pulled her over after work, searched her car, talking about giving her a ticket if she doesnt marry this guy. lol she said yes
2007-03-01 09:46:08 · answer #7 · answered by jedi1medic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go church ask for a date which is convinient for both of
u and get married
dont think too much
afterwards u can tell their parents
2007-03-01 09:50:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
both, talk to her and her parents....wanna make a HUGE impression, propose in FRONT of her parents at a nice dinner....trust me, itll work
2007-03-01 09:53:49 · answer #9 · answered by mech_warrior172003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave out the cheat on her part.Flowers,Ring,down on your knees.
2007-03-01 10:50:45 · answer #10 · answered by Goodfellar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋