Wife now in re-hab for 30 days detox. Post Meno-pausal, over 50 yrs old. Went on hormone therapy about a year ago. She got in touch via internet with old boyfriend from high school who lives half-way across country. They chatted for a period of weeks and he mentioned a cyber-sex site to her. I travel for work and I guess she was bored. She visited East Coast twice in the past year and had sexual, not emotional affairs with this guy but her E-Mail shows it was just sex and it was only a couple of times. She got into cyber-sex and camming. She had a sexual encounter with a guy she met on the inter-net recently. Just found out.I was looking for some insurance info and found some E-Mails and when I looked at her computer I found out these things that had been happening. She blames it all on the alcohol. I think hormones partly to blame. Alcohol use had become excessive, one fifth or more a day. Married 24 years. Does not want divorce and neither do I but I am the victim here. Any ideas.
2007-03-01 01:35:21 · 2 answers · asked by dv tool 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you can make all the excuses you want - reality is she is not very happy with you and vice-versa. You've had a marriage for 24yrs - treasure it and it's that time to cut your loses and find happiness elsewhere, Unfortunately this relationship is somewhat doomed. Maybe nature is telling you to change course.
2007-03-04 15:40:42 · answer #1 · answered by B N 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
enable's in basic terms call it a "Mid-existence re-assessment." LOL... have self assurance it or no longer, he's grieving. He has lost his babies and the sensation that his existence is in front of him. attempt telling him this: maximum persons stay to be approximately 80. he's in basic terms midway by existence. interior the 1st 0.5, he had no administration over the 1st 18 to 2 an prolonged time, so extremely... he's in basic terms been in cost of his existence for roughly 2 an prolonged time. Now, he's smarter and has approximately 40 greater to bypass. it extremely is an entire different lifetime! in basic terms this time, he gets entire administration... discover new and interesting activities to do collectively, plan collectively all the exciting issues you may comprise into your lives as a pair over the subsequent ten years. He desires the attitude that existence has extremely in basic terms all started, no longer ended... i'm hoping that made experience... lol ...and if he's no longer prepared to snatch existence by the kahunas and characteristic some exciting... then he definitiely should be smacked with the iron... LOLOL
2016-11-26 21:56:22 · answer #2 · answered by leissa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋