Why my behavior change a lot? By the 1st few weeks that my girlfriend and I were dating, I would be very flirtatious, and looking at others girls. Now we are in the 6th month, I am really loyal and faithful like I would not flirt with other girls, and not look at other girls. If I catch myself looking at other girls, I would remind myself I have a girlfriend. Why is that?
2007-03-01 01:30:11 · 11 answers · asked by Daft Punker 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You are growing up.
Congratulations.
2007-03-01 01:35:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my experience this happens in many relationships and its usually because when you are in a new relationship you don't know where it is going or if it is going to last or not. After a few months you get a better feeling of things and start respecting your significant other in more solid ways. When you start dating most people are still looking for the next best thing therefore we keeps our eyes open to the other fish in the sea sort of speak but by a few months we no longer see the need to go looking elsewhere and therefore that old way of looking doesn't appeal to us any more.
2007-03-01 09:43:11 · answer #2 · answered by freyja5683 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably because initially you were still fresh in the relationship and were used to being single. Do you have strong feelings for this person? Because if you do, than that is most likely what is keeping you from looking at other girls. It is a great thing to be loyal and faithful, just like i am sure you want her to be.
2007-03-01 09:36:45 · answer #3 · answered by FxxyCream 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps the relationship is a bit more serious now.
And maybe you realized that you wouldn't appreciate her looking at and flirting with other men, so you're not going to do that to her anymore.
Either way, good for you! It's hard to find someone who will be loyal and faithful in a relationship!
2007-03-01 09:41:01 · answer #4 · answered by Star Dust 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When the relationship with your girl friend was new there was no attachment yet so you still felt single. Now that you have grown to love and care about your girlfriend you focus is on her. Also, you have learned to respect your girl friend and care about her feelings. As you know, looking and flirting with other girls would make her doubt your love and also hurt her feelings.
2007-03-01 09:45:56 · answer #5 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good for you!! Your growing up. Not only that you have developed deeper feelings for this chick then you realize. Not a bad thing. Its very nice to hear there are still decent guys out there that care about girls feelings. Simply said you "Care."
2007-03-01 09:43:37 · answer #6 · answered by ilisalec 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you love her. If you were courting other women, it would hurt her and you don't want to do that.
2007-03-01 09:40:33 · answer #7 · answered by Aimee L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably because you care about her
2007-03-01 09:35:32 · answer #8 · answered by happyblonde 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys will always be guys...
2007-03-01 09:35:30 · answer #9 · answered by TapAnyButton 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no clue
2007-03-01 09:41:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋