put her hand up, and cut you off, mid-sentence. my first grader has been having problems in the lunch room, and i went to talk to her about it, and she stuck her hand out and cut me off, she said"i don't know what you want me to do , they didn't even sit at the same table", my hubby thinks i'm over reacting, what do you think. p.s this isn't the first time she's done this.
2007-03-01 01:26:44 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I would certainly go to the principal and tell him you simply will not tolerate being able to have a clear communication with your childs teacher. You have every right to demand that she be placed in another class is the teacher cannot give you common courtesy, and cuts you off so rudely and abruptly. I simply would not allow it. Be calm and rational when talking to the principal. State your case simply, that you do not appreciate being cut off mid sentance, or being treated like a first grader (not that a first grader should be treated that way either) Tell him you find it dismissive and rude. As for hubby, tell him he should be yours and your daughters champion, and back you up.
2007-03-01 01:34:41 · answer #1 · answered by beebs 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would def say something to the principal!!! The teacher needs to try to help fix your situation, not ignore it. My son has been having some trouble like this at school too and I suggested that my boyfriend and I and his dad and his girlfriend all meet with my son and his teacher to discuss his behavior out in the open and see if there's something we can do to fix it and she will never respond to any of my notes or emails. I also suggested him seeing the school counselor and she never responds to my questions about that either. Finally, my ex husband sent the principal a kind of rude email and we are in the process of scheduling this meeting that I wanted.
2007-03-01 10:01:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had the same prob with my kids first grade teacher...You are NOT over reacting....take your child out of school & home school him/her....I did this, then put my kid back in school in a DIFFERENT classroom! there was NO problems after that! that teacher needs to be addressed...write a letter to the Superintendant of Schools in your district! DO NOT let her get away with this! this needs to be stopped NOW! Good Luck!
2007-03-01 12:03:53 · answer #3 · answered by east2west92 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You asked what I would do!! You just rattled the lion's cage, Sister! I would take my arm and bring her hand down as firmly as I needed for her to remember she couldn't "handle" me OR My Child Again!! And yes, I did have to handle something similar. It was verbal but I took my daughter home that day no matter WHAT her teacher said. Don't ever let her do that to you again!!! @8-[ We're taxpayers Too on Top of knowing our own kids and what they need!!
2007-03-01 09:37:15 · answer #4 · answered by Dovey 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Speaking as a first grade teacher, the teacher was having a bad day (probably) Teachers are not even in the lunch room with the kids....usually. You would have better luck talking with the people who work in the lunch room. Do you know how many parents we talk with on a daily basis about problems in our own classrooms? A lot? She probably wants you to talk with the people who work in the lunch room. GOOD LUCK
2007-03-01 09:30:34 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 3⤋
I would look her in the eye and inform her that I realiized that her days are filled with teaching children, but I am not a child and would appreciate it if you would let me finish my sentence. Then if she did it again...I would not be so nice telling her not to stick her hand up at me again.
2007-03-01 09:55:54 · answer #6 · answered by rosey 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Serious answer:
Try approaching her again, at another time, in order to air your concerns. If she fails to respond appropriately, move up the chain of command.
Right answer: your keys + her car = dent in that pittance she calls a salary. Actually, if she's your typical teacher, she won't even notice a few scratches on her car. Flat tires =
2007-03-01 09:33:27 · answer #7 · answered by Son of the Man who would be Dad 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would tell her not to interrupt again because that is very rude. Thank goodness this never happened to my mother! She was constantly screaming at my teachers when I was in middle/ high school for some reason and if that had happened to her she probably would've ended up fighting, lol!
2007-03-01 09:30:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would go to the principle...Teachers are there to help mold our children...If they are having a problem at school then the teacher should listen to all of your concerns and work with you to correct the problem. If she isn't willing to even listen to your concerns I don't think she needs to be teaching...
2007-03-01 09:32:42 · answer #9 · answered by Emmy 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would put MY hand up and say" excuse ME. Please stop interupting me, as it is VERY rude. I have concerns for my child while he is at school and it is your responsibility to make sure i am comfortable putting my child on the bus everyday. if you will not listen to me and help alleviate my concerns i will go have a discussion with the principal, your boss."
2007-03-01 09:30:58 · answer #10 · answered by lynnabugg 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋