I hear so many people get worked up about turning 30 and their life in the 30's what is the big deal?
I will be turning 30 in a few months and I am relaxed and fine about it, so what is the big deal???
2007-03-01 01:13:55 · 23 answers · asked by SimplyHappy 4 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Some people get all worked up because of the hype around the milestone of 30. For some it's because they feel it means they will have to give up certain things, expected to act more mature and they feel the pressure of personal accomplishment.
You have the right attitude. It's just another birthday. You are who you are whether you are 28, 38 or 48. What's important is how you think, feel and act. Act young, stay young.
My favorite saying is; "You only live once. If you do it right, once is enough." Enjoy your life at all ages!
Happy Birthday!
2007-03-01 01:21:22 · answer #1 · answered by Charlie 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I dont see what the big deal is either.....I have a friend that recently turned 30 and just freaked out about it~! Maybe when I turn 30(in 3 years) it will be a different story....Well, I will say a happy birthday to you now.....
2007-03-01 01:18:43 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good for you, you should be relaxed about it. I have found that getting older is actually kind of freeing. You begin to see what's really important in life and the small stuff just doesn't get you like it used to. I also think you become more comfortable with who you are as a person. Turning 30 is great and nothing to fear. Life keeps getting better.
2007-03-01 04:59:35 · answer #3 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not scary at all...
I was a bit scared but I got over it!!!
Im in early 30's and if anything I feel more chilled than my 20's..its a state of mind..my mother turns 60 today, she genuinely looks 45 maximum.
Its the type of person someone is, not what age they are.
You'll enjoy your 30's I bet..
2007-03-01 01:22:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not as scary as turning 42. Made through the 30's OK.
2007-03-01 01:20:02 · answer #5 · answered by patlamb41 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was nervous about turning 30 because there is so much emphasis put on being in your twenties. Somehow it just sounded more desirable to be in your twenties.
When I actually turned thirty I wasn't too phased by it. People who are not comfortable in their lives progression probably worry more.
Happy Early Birthday and Best of Luck To You
2007-03-01 01:17:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it rather is a real "milestone", even nevertheless it does not could desire to be a drag. when I grew to become 30 (sixteen years in the past, do the maths! ;) , i replaced into newly divorced and able to 'rumble' (LOL...) the element to undergo in thoughts is which you do no longer could desire to uphold anybody ELSE'S "standards" of what you may desire to act like, dress like, or "be" like... the only guy or woman you may desire to thrill is your self. do no longer make any vast or "unexpected" changes, you will deliver your self right into a tailspin... basically take it as yet another day and you'd be terrific. Oh, and by skill of how? 30 is basically the initiating, honey... it gets greater advantageous and SWEETER once you be responsive to what you decide on for and are not afraid to attain out and grab a handful! ;) (and that i comprehend that could properly be taken ANY sort of approaches, that's why I worded it that way!) ;) happy birthday beforehand, and don't problem... I nevertheless have not found out what *I* decide for to be while *I* "advance up" yet... for my birthday, I even have tickets to confirm Linkin Park and My Chemical Romance - PFFFFFFFFFT on age 'constraints'! ;)
2016-09-30 01:30:24 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 30 now and it is not a big deal. My friends constantly remind me that I am getting older, but I maintain the attitude that I am celebrating anniversaries of my 25th birthday and I am only on my 5th anniversary so I am ok.
Remember it is no big deal.
2007-03-01 01:25:27 · answer #8 · answered by Important 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Turning thirty isn't a big deal. It's faceing the fact that your getting older, that most people have trouble with.Thirty is a kind of turning point when people realize that they will not live forever.
And yes, getting old sucks.
2007-03-01 01:21:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No deal at all. I turned last year and it was barely a blip on the emotional radar. People just like to try to make something of nothing Happy Birthday!
2007-03-01 01:42:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋