2007-03-01 01:06:42 · 6 answers · asked by NuclearKitty 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
This may be a maturing process. When we are 10, we cannot run as well as when we are 18. Also, a 10 year old cannot understand love as well as a 20 year old. Our first love will not be as deep as, well, the "love of our life". Keep in mind that in adolescence it is difficult or impossible to know the difference between love and lust. Unfortunately, our lust usually develops before our love, particularly in males. This is potentially dangerous.
There are no good reasons to rush into marriage. There are plenty of bad reasons: lust; to escape from a situation, problem, or home. As to lust, "abstinence makes the heart grow fonder". If it doesn't then lust is the reason for the relationship and that reason will cause the couple to have major problems.
Here is a description of the results of love. If it is hard to "grasp", then maybe you are not ready for it:
Love is patient, kind, does not take into account a wrong suffered, does not act unbecomingly, does not demand it's own way, is not irritable, never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful and endures through every circumstance.
2007-03-01 01:26:19 · answer #1 · answered by Jim F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you afraid of? Why don't you want to get married? Is it just to him, or if another came along you might say 'yes'? These are all questions you have to ask yourself. If you are totally against marriage then maybe it is not for you at this point in time.
2007-03-01 09:11:23 · answer #2 · answered by XOXOXOXO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have the wedding jitters.. its very normal but i think you can see a psychologist and see what you can do to emotionally open up to the idea... Assuming you guys have been dating enough to go through with a marriage.. whether youre finanically and phyically ready for the demands of marriage life. Later.
2007-03-01 09:10:55 · answer #3 · answered by Cules 4 life: ASHKON IS BACK 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel you don't want to get married, then don't. Its a big step and don't get pushed into something you don't feel is right. Good Luck!
2007-03-01 09:12:47 · answer #4 · answered by B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should move in with eachother and see how that is if you haven't already done so.
life is all about taking chances and if you really love him then you maybe should get married!
gooooooooooooood luck!!!
2007-03-01 09:11:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask to marriage
2007-03-01 09:09:46 · answer #6 · answered by keral 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋