are there any women out there who have used a key logger on their partner and if so what was the outcome
2007-03-01 01:01:41 · 10 answers · asked by a_working_wife 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
yes I have. The outcome was him getting busted messaging another woman, "hey beautiful." He deleted one of his email accounts all together. We almost broke up.
I was able to obtain his password for his emails etc... and kept it as a way of seeing how true he really is.
2007-03-01 01:09:50 · answer #1 · answered by Java Queen 3 · 1⤊ 3⤋
I used it on. I've learned that when you smell smoke, theres a fire. Your senses are always better than a key logger. But I didn't say you couldn't confirm your senses:) just be ready for the consequences. AND what you're willing to do about them. Good luck.
2007-03-01 02:06:39 · answer #2 · answered by rickerticker 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup, I did that. Suspected my husband was having an affair, installed the keylogger, and got the proof. Heres what I found: Email from him to her: My wife is catching on, and I guess me and you are over, there is too much drama. I like you and miss you alot. See ya later. Reply email from her: I'm sorry things didnt work out for us. I dont want to be done. We had alot of good times together and I would like to make more. I like you and miss you alot as well. Hmmmm? AND HE STILL DENIED THE AFFAIR. ARE YOU FRIGGIN KIDDING ME! She finally told me the truth and it is only then that he admitted it. I am in full support of installing one if you suspect your spouse is up to no good. However if you have a spyware detector software on your computer, it will likely detect it. Thats how my husband found out I had one. I lied about it, ofcourse. Made him think I was too computer illiterate to do something like that, that our computer must have been hacked. He bought it, or at least made me think he did. I uninstalled the keylogger, but still have his passwords, so yah I check up on him often. Call this wrong, but considering what I just went through, I think I have every right to check on it even if I am doing the nosy sneaky way. I want to catch him doing the right things for awhile. so far (6 months later) all is well and nothing suspicios. I'm hoping he has changed his cheating ways. Time will tell.
2007-03-01 02:27:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
About 2 year ago i got one and for me to keep a eye on my son i find out later that my wife was having a emotional affair with some guy she was role paying with. this guy was half her age and lived in east cost. this guy use to send my wife gifts and my wife use to send him gifts. they also talk on the phone and text message each other after find all that info i the confronted her and she and i broke up for a few weeks daring those week i keep a eye on the logger and i used it to win back her heart and now she and i are more in love then ever.
2007-03-01 01:24:03 · answer #4 · answered by celticdragon 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Used it after I confronted spouse about emails - nothing has happened since
2007-03-01 01:43:41 · answer #5 · answered by Confussedhere 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I found he was the dog he was I am on my way of working out of the marriage now
2007-03-01 05:03:56 · answer #6 · answered by Peggy C 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
oh dear. thats so untrusting. id hate to be cyber-cheated on. if my boyfriend ever cheats on me it better be with an insanely hot woman (at least i'll know he wasnt an internet perv) =p
2007-03-01 05:40:47 · answer #7 · answered by maraesa1000 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I FOUND ONE ON MY COMPUTER. NEEDLESS TO SAY, IT INFURIATED ME! ESPECIALLY SINCE HE WAS THE ONE LOGGING INTO ADULT WEBSITES.
BE PREPARED FOR THE CONSEQUENCES IF HE FINDS IT.
2007-03-01 01:14:31 · answer #8 · answered by sweetbabykitty 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
No I haven't....I've heard of it but don't know how to use it.
2007-03-01 01:09:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no tell
2007-03-01 01:10:41 · answer #10 · answered by keral 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋