Sometimes I catch myboyfriend checking out other girls and it makes me so mad because that's not cool. His excuse is he looks at everything around him, but i dont see him looking at me or little old ladies, only people that jogging in skimpy clothes or girls with big butts.
2007-03-01 00:57:22 · 5 answers · asked by kitty_kart84 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I think it's built into men. I'm yet to see a man who doesn't do that. My boyfriend looks, but I've called him on it (laughingly of course). So now when he does check them out he acts like he's not, and he's horrible at it, so then I laugh at him more (plus it shows me that he doesn't want to hurt my feelings). It's like part of their instinct. I don't think they do it to hurt us intentionally, it's like putting a man in a sexy woman museum, they can look at the pieces, they just can't touch. I think many men don't want to touch, they just like to look. I can agree that looking at them display this behavior is like watching a sex crazed old man, it's kind of gross. My best friend is a guy, and he's worse than my man, I tell him if he stares any harder his eyes will pop out and his drool will hit the floor. It's normal so don't worry about it, take it as a compliment, it might make him more into you, he might feel that your ten times better than anyone he checks out. Good luck.
2007-03-01 01:55:02 · answer #1 · answered by Your Trainer 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
grownup adult men look. handle it. he's no longer any further the definitely one. in fact, i must be suspicious if he did no longer look. Face it - the definitely reason it bothers you is which you're insecure. Why does that alter into his undertaking?
2016-11-26 21:54:07 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men look. Deal with it. He's not the only one. In fact, I'd be suspicious if he didn't look.
Face it - the only reason it bothers you is that you are insecure. Why does that become his problem?
2007-03-01 01:03:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's a man its gonna happen. But what you can do is talk to him. I mean if he is cracking his neck to look at these women that is disrespectful. But if he is being subtle about it let it be.
2007-03-01 02:05:26 · answer #4 · answered by Tia 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's a GUY, that is what guys do.
2007-03-01 01:38:29 · answer #5 · answered by Terri 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋