do u think i am to young for a baby iam 18 years old an my b/f is 36 we have been together for nearly 3 years an have often talked about it..but he already has a son at 15 an im not sure if he does actually want another baby? a baby is all i have ever wanted an dreamed of..i knw iam ready but is he..plz help wat do i do??
2007-03-01 00:57:01 · 14 answers · asked by claire4john 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
NO YOU ARE NOT READY!!!
You are 18 dating a 36 year old man and you say this relationship has gone on for 3 years? Are you aware that this man committed statuatory rape? That's not someone you want to reproduce with. I know you think you love him because you are young, but trust me - you will screw up your life by having a baby now. Forget this guy and get an education.
2007-03-01 01:01:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No you are not ready either. Have a life first go out party have fun, because later if you have a child now you will feel like you missed out on alot!! Might I just add where the hell were your parents when you were dating a 33 year old man at the time?? No wonder you are a little confused about what you want!!
2007-03-01 09:04:06 · answer #2 · answered by HOT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ASK YOURSELF THESE QUESTIONS.
If I have a baby, out of marriage, will the boyfriend leave?
If you dont know, then I say GET married first before you have a baby. You dont want to put the child through a life of child support, a dead beat daddy, and a working mother with no realtionship or time for her child.
You are WAY to young for a child only because your not married and in a commited relationship. You need to think it over and make sure you are willing to let your child suffer.
2007-03-01 09:01:21 · answer #3 · answered by Encouragement 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well are you out of school yet??? are you sure he is the right one for you???
There are things to think about and the risks you are taking having a baby. Your still young yet, i think you should wait.
But if you are readu, go ahead. But i would rather wait till im like at least in my 20's like 22 or 23, about to get married or married, and i have the right guy in my hands at that time.
2007-03-01 09:02:07 · answer #4 · answered by ♥mcmanda♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're 18, he's 36, and you've been together for 3 years? there's something wrong with that.... no don't have a baby.
2007-03-01 09:01:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont know that is something you and him and his son has to work out because his son is only 3 years younger then you and it might bother him to have step mother that is three years older then him so you will have to work it out
2007-03-01 09:04:21 · answer #6 · answered by Lady 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My opinion is that you are too young.If you just wait for few years.I mean,you're 18!Wait for a while.You asked are you to young and I answered.But you have to ask your boyfriend too.He is a lot older than you are and I'm sure that he has more experience.Talk too him and hear his opinion and than decide together.But I really think that you shooed wait.WAIT!!!
2007-03-01 09:07:59 · answer #7 · answered by Chupawa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honest it now what we think but you an your bf, but rember a baby need lot of love an carem, an going to stop you from just jumpping up an going out,,, but if you 2 want it yes
2007-03-01 09:11:31 · answer #8 · answered by ghostwalker077 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no! and i must say its quite disturbing knowing that you were 15 when you started dating a 33 year old man!
2007-03-01 09:17:01 · answer #9 · answered by halfpint 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have to ask DON'T
first off he needs to go to jail for rape and endangering a minor
this is just not right on so many levels
i think you need to get away from the freek and be a kid never mind having one
2007-03-01 09:01:51 · answer #10 · answered by elite_women_rule_the_rock 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋